When responding to domestic disturbance calls, police officers must assess the situation, interview all parties, and determine if a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) is appropriate; victims can apply for a TRO at any time, including 24/7, and the court will evaluate whether there is sufficient evidence of abuse to grant protection, with the order prohibiting the restrained person from contacting or approaching the protected person.
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Annie and the mother of the kid. Annie is stating that the father of the kids is being physical to the kids and herself.
advisers downstairs as well.
Think we got it.
>> I'm arriving.
I got a vehicle in the driveway. Look like someone's backing >> from you.
>> Hey, officer.
>> What's going on?
>> How are you?
>> What happened?
>> Um, I need this lady removed from my property.
>> Okay.
>> Hello.
>> A lot of problems.
>> Yeah.
>> May you step out of the car? You want to talk?
That vehicle is coming back to a Honda by the name of >> Annie. Where's >> she? The the wife is on the way here.
>> Where was she?
>> She left cuz he threw her on the floor.
>> Why'd she leave? Tell her to come back here now.
>> Cuz he kicked us both out. She's coming right now. She's coming.
>> Okay.
>> Um officer.
>> All right. I'm going to come up and talk to you in a second. All right. You were just bragging on the phone that you threw your wife on the ground. You were just bragging on the phone about it.
It's on your camera.
>> What are you talking about?
>> And she told me >> she should be returning back to the residence. And then he contacted the female.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay.
>> She needs to leave.
>> I'm waiting for the uh the off my partners to arrive and I'll come in and talk to you. What? What's going on?
Tell her to come back here.
>> 17.
>> She's coming. She's coming. All right.
>> She She's in.
>> How' she get to real quick?
>> Go ahead.
>> Oh, this happened a little while ago.
>> How long ago?
>> I'm not sure. She called me a little while ago. I was with the daughter.
>> Go back inside. We'll come in and talk to you.
>> Oh my god.
>> Where are the kids?
>> They're inside.
>> Yeah.
>> Let's go see. I'll talk to her. Who? So, you called?
>> Mhm.
>> And she called.
>> So, how long ago did this happen >> just now? He just literally every day.
Every day.
>> Okay. But you said she's in. So, you said it happened a little while ago.
Then you said it just happened right now.
>> With you. Okay. So, what happened with you?
>> I went upstairs. I asked him if the little boy needed a bottle. He took the bottle and almost broke his coffee table. And he was like, "Ask Shamine." I was like, "Okay." And then he was like, "Get the [ __ ] out of my house. Get the [ __ ] out of my house." And I was like, "Can you move so I could go?" Cuz he keeps going like this and like he's going to hit me.
>> Okay. So I'm like, "Okay, like, can you move so I can go around?" And then he's like, I start going down the stairs and he's just I'm right behind me.
>> Like he's about to hit me. We're at the bottom. He's going like this. Get the [ __ ] out. Get the [ __ ] out. I'm like, "Okay." Like >> what am I supposed to do at this point?
This is every day at 4:00. This happens every day. During the day, he acts normal because he's not that drunk. 4:00 he's belligerent drunk.
>> So he's been drinking >> drinking and smoking weed.
>> Okay.
>> In front of the kids.
>> All right. So then what happens >> with his pipe upstairs? Just smoking weed all the time. It's insane. CPS is involved.
>> Yeah, I know. We've been here quite a lot. So So what then what happened? He followed you out the stairs. Down the stairs. He was yelling at you.
>> So like Yeah. He just followed me down the stairs and then he like slammed the door again like he did yesterday and then like closed the garage on me.
>> Okay. Did he push you at all? He put his hands down.
>> No, but he >> Okay. And what happened with the wife?
>> I heard him on the phone telling a family member that he threw her down on the floor and that he didn't give a [ __ ] >> I don't care if I hit her.
>> How long ago did this happen? Let me tell you cuz she called me.
>> Let's get in accurate cuz she went all the way to >> Well, she she got an apartment and to get away from this. He doesn't know that though.
>> What kind of car she has?
>> She has an M3, a blue M3. You'll hear it.
>> But she called me.
>> All right.
>> I think it was this car. Let me see how long it was.
>> Yeah, I believe it was >> 5:47. So about time.
>> 547. No, wait. Yeah. Yeah, cuz I was still at um gymnastics with her.
>> You have be right there in you just so we can note who we're who we're talking to.
Yeah.
>> Probably going to have to do a report for what's going on here. This is, like I said, it's been an ongoing issue. Are the kids okay?
>> I don't >> Are they inside?
>> They just get upset when he's yelling like that and then he grabs them by like one arm and stuff and he just like tells them to shut up constantly.
>> Are Did they witness anything?
>> The kids?
>> Yeah, >> they're they're babies.
>> They They were there.
>> Yeah, they were there. They witnessed it every single time. They're they're babies, though. It's a 9month-old and a 2 and a half old.
>> All right, just just hang out here for a second and we'll see what's going on inside. You can close your window so it's not all right.
What's going on?
>> You've gotten a better haircut than I have. I haven't even been able to come my hair.
>> What's going on? Let's go inside.
>> Okay, I'm going to shake your hand if you don't want to.
>> Let's go inside.
>> What's going on?
>> So, come here.
>> Uh, officer.
Um, as you can see, the kids are totally fine, right?
>> Well, I see one kid. Where's the other one? Right here.
>> There. Okay. So, what's going on? Um, so my wife has left since uh January 28th.
She's not present in the house. And uh you kind of know the story about me that um I have a very heavy duty job.
>> Okay. I don't know what I don't know what you do for work. I know I've been here. This is my third time here now, but >> it's okay. We we could we could talk.
>> Can I take him, please?
>> He can bounce. He's doing He's doing fine. We can talk.
>> Sir, I'd like to take my uh son. Can we figure out what's going on first?
>> Okay. So, this girl, right, she's causing a lot of problems as a babysitter. She um what's it called today? She took my daughter to the gym or whatever, which is totally fine right after school. No problems there. But then she didn't even tell me that she was leaving. I'm downstairs working and my son I I don't have that baby monitor over there that you see. She didn't even give me that. So, like randomly after my work meeting, I went upstairs and I checked. My son is awake and there's nobody adhering to him >> or any attention.
>> So, what is that? That's negligence.
>> What?
>> Oh, it's not negligence. What happened today?
>> Nothing really happened today besides the fact that she just like flipped out on me.
>> There was no physical touch anybody?
>> No, sir. Not at all. Nothing. So when you say everything it got a little out of control. What what does that mean on that?
>> Yeah, that means that she was cussing in front of my kids or whatever. Yesterday this babysitter did the same thing. And then I hate it when people cuss in front of my kids.
>> Okay, so what are we doing? What are we doing to rectify this issue here that we've had for a long time now? Are we doing >> It's a divorce. It's a divorce. But then again, this nanny or whatever that we have or whatever, she's not working out for us.
>> I cannot work involved.
>> There is a lawyer involved.
>> What are the lawyers saying?
>> The lawyers are saying to be calm, cool, collective or whatever, everything will soon pass. But with with stuff like this or whatever, I have no clue what's going on.
>> Okay. And that babysitter is extremely negligent towards my kids. And on top of that, you know, my wife isn't um what's it called? Watching the kids at night or anything. I'm the sole caretaker.
>> Okay. So, what what does your wife You said your wife hasn't been here since January. So, what does she have to do with any of this?
>> What does she have to do with any of this? Then she comes in and then she doesn't she's not with the kids. So, how am I supposed to like >> Okay, but what happened with the nanny?
>> The Wait, talk to me. What happened to the nanny?
>> Huh?
What happened between you and the nanny?
>> Me and the nanny or whatever, she's extremely lazy. She's consistently lying to my uh wife or whatever with the work that she does. Um, nobody's monitoring the kids right now in the daytime. My wife gives full trust to the nanny. Me, on the other hand, I'm always using that Google camera to watch the nanny and make sure things are okay.
>> Okay?
>> You know, I get up at 5:00 in the morning, I change his diaper, no problem. That's my responsibility.
That's my son. He's wellfed. He goes back to sleep. But then, you know, when this nanny comes in, she's always on her phone with earbuds in and she just leaves the kids on the ground. And I guarantee you, I need to change my daughter's diaper, too, because she never does anything.
But then she acts to my wife like she's done like the most like, you know, tremendous job taking care of the kids.
>> What h what happened today? Anything between you and your wife?
No, >> nothing happened.
>> My wife just came in. It was just like a brief like blah blah blah this, blah blah blah that. And my wife left.
>> What was that?
>> That was today around like uh 5:00.
>> Did your wife just leave here?
>> Who was that? That's my wife.
>> Did your wife just leave here?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. Why did she just abruptly leave?
>> Because she always does that. As soon as we get in an argument, that's what she's been um advised to do.
>> Okay.
Okay. So, we're going to get her started the story. See what's going on.
>> Um, I mean, listen, you guys got to do something here, man.
>> We're I'm trying.
>> Yeah, >> because you know what's going to happen?
Someone's going to get arrested again.
>> I I can't get arrested again. There's nothing that's been happening.
>> I'm telling you. Listen to me.
>> Someone's going to bound to get arrested sooner or later.
>> I agree with you, sir. This is very This is a very toxic >> Okay. This is a very toxic situation for the kids, for you, for her. Okay. So, something needs to be figured out. It's going to it's going to keep happening like this. You're going to call the police station 400 times. She you guys are going to be uncooperative.
You know, you're going to start yelling.
She's going to start yelling. You don't like the babysitter. She doesn't like the babysitter. We You know, you guys can't live like this.
>> Sir, there's something that's been happening, though. I have been the sole caretaker of the kids after 6:00 p.m.
>> and I need a little bit of help because I often have work at night as well.
Okay. I just, you know, it's hard for me to have one kid feed him milk and be typing on a keyboard at the same time. I need a little bit of help.
>> Okay. But I don't need a negligent mother. That's why this keeps repeating.
>> Yeah. But what I'm trying to say is you guys don't get along. How do you explain?
>> That's fine. If we don't get along, we can have marriage counseling or therapy or whatever we need.
>> Yeah. You're going to have to.
>> Exactly. So, there's a solution to it.
But if she doesn't want to do it, then let it be.
>> Yeah. But >> listen to me. What I'm trying to get at is this. Okay.
>> Do you mind if I smoke this? There's no smell. Actually, you know what? Let me be professional. Let me just put that away.
>> You're going home. You could >> No, no, no. I I don't want to do anything. There's nothing in my pockets, just so you know. Nothing. Okay. Yeah, I don't see you as a threat.
>> Okay.
>> Said you were a threat.
>> Okay.
>> You want to smoke your jewel?
>> No. I don't calm you down, then so be it. I'm trying to get down to the bottom of why the police were called today saying people getting thrown downstairs and people are yelling and what?
>> Okay. That's why we're here.
>> People getting thrown downstairs.
>> Who called the police?
>> She did. The babysitter did.
>> That's why I'm trying to ask you if it got physical or not because we got a report that somebody was thrown down the stairs.
It >> it's a simple question. I asked you that. You told me no. That's why we're waiting for your wife to get back to see if she has any any injuries or any complaints. Okay. And then we go from there.
>> Okay. So, um officer, I appreciate your investigation.
There has been nothing physical. There has been nothing with me throwing anybody down the stairs. Okay.
>> If I threw somebody down the stairs or whatever, don't you think they'd be in a little bit of pain?
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. That's what I'm So then why is she lying and doing defamation of character?
>> Well, listen to me. That's civil. You know that's civil. Defamation of character is not a criminal complaint.
>> I know, but still it's wrong, right?
>> I guess it's wrong. You got to speak to your lawyer then. Listen to me. Can I give you a little advice? If I if I was going through a divorce, I would not be living with my ex-wife or wife.
>> I don't want to.
>> It's it's it's not good for the kids.
It's not good for your well-being or her her wellbeing. We're here every week, right, >> Officer Leto? If she runs out, right? If she runs out or whatever, >> isn't it my job as a father to take care of the kids?
>> 100%. Absolutely.
>> So, what am I supposed to do?
>> You guys got to be cordial and figure out how you're going to handle child custody.
>> She doesn't She doesn't do anything.
>> You guys got to find a way because >> it's getting to the point where we're here all the time >> and you got to think about what this is doing to your kids.
>> Okay, but she I'm very worried about that. That's the number one thing I'm worried about. Okay, then you're going to have to contact your lawyer.
>> I didn't even make her snack tray, >> as you should. Okay.
>> Can you come with me?
>> Hold on.
>> Let's just Let's just talk to us here.
>> Is there a light we can put on?
>> Sure. You want to fix something?
>> Where is it?
>> Here, let me get it. Sorry.
>> Better.
>> Yeah, much better.
>> Listen, as long as no one got hurt today, okay? We're just here to keep the peace for the argument. That's fine with me. We can't we can't start having physical altercations that or anything threatening. Okay? We can't be having that. So, if you guys are going to live together, okay, amongst each other, >> are you listening to me?
>> Yes.
>> If you're going to live amongst each other, okay, and take care of the children and work from home, you have to figure something out.
>> I don't want to live with her. I just want to make sure my kids are okay.
That's all I care about.
>> Well, I listen, I can't make that. She's not in the house. I have to be here and take care of the kids. I can't leave a 1-year-old or a 2-year-old and a what's it called? 9-month-old alone in the house. Doesn't work like that.
>> I agree.
>> So, I have to be here when the babysitter leaves.
>> Is the babysitter leaving?
>> Huh?
>> Is the babysitter leaving?
>> I want her to leave badly.
>> Okay. This is your house. You tell her to leave. It's It's not >> No, but she doesn't leave. That's the problem. Then she's calling the cops on me.
You guys didn't need to be here today.
>> We only come when we're called. Okay, we were called here. All right, but I didn't do anything. There was no physical altercation, no nothing. I'm just tired of her lazy work and lying to my wife. And I'm tired of my wife being negligent with the kids.
>> Okay.
>> And all this better not go to Dist.
Is it >> It's a verbal argument, >> right? It was a verbal argument and I'm tired of her >> unless it's escalated any further.
>> No, sir.
>> No, there's nothing against the law regarding a verbal argument. But like I said, if someone lays their hands on somebody or threatens somebody, it's different.
>> Rest assured, rest assured, none of that has happened at all whatsoever. I've been very careful with that because I don't want to go to the police station again. I just got through with a case or whatever. And I'm very concerned about my job because I have to be able to provide for my kids.
>> You want to go talk to her with Dave?
I'm good. Okay, that's fine. We're going to speak to your wife, see what happened. See why she left abruptly.
Okay.
>> Yeah.
>> Is that okay?
>> Yes. But that's fine. Will you come with me for one second? Where am I going? The kitchen.
>> Where are we going? Can I get I don't want to go into the kitchen. Let's go to the kitchen.
>> Let's stay right here. Okay.
Yeah, you guys unfortunately got have to figure something out, man.
>> I know.
>> I know.
>> You tell me you have a high stress job, then >> that's not it, sir. That's not what matters. It's a high stress job.
>> But having a high stress job, you said a lot of workload on you. Okay. And taking care of kids and fighting with your wife every day, it's not going to be a good recipe. Sir, I didn't start any fights.
Sir, >> I I didn't say you started.
>> Okay, but then I'm not the one causing the argument. I'm doing everything I can to >> take care of my children, keep my job.
>> So, ultimately through a divorce, right?
Ultimately, through this divorce, what's the ultimate decision that's going to have to be made? Someone's going to have to leave, right? You can't through a divorce. You guys can't live together.
You have to figure out >> She's left already. She has her own apartment.
So she doesn't live here?
>> No.
>> So I don't understand what's why. So she's just here to care for the children. Is that what it is?
>> She should be here.
>> So she's here with the babysitter while you're doing work.
>> She's not here with the babysitter.
>> Okay. So when she comes back, the babysitter leaves. Is that what it is?
>> The babysitter is still here for roughly an hour and a half.
>> Okay.
>> When she comes back.
>> Okay.
But then that's just to uh probably catch up and see how the day was.
>> Okay. And then you you do your work, right?
>> Until what time?
>> Usually.
>> Usually like 5:45.
>> And then she leaves again.
>> Whatever she decides to do.
>> Like once the kids go to bed, she leaves.
>> If she's got a date with her boyfriend or something else like that, then yeah, she leaves.
>> But does she sleep here still?
>> No.
>> She doesn't sleep here anymore?
>> No.
Okay.
>> And she sworn under oath during her last case that she has moved out.
>> Okay.
>> May I use the restroom, sir?
>> Could you just wait like 1 minute?
>> I really can't. I would like to use the restroom, please. I can leave the door cracked. If you don't mind, it's just to be number one.
>> There's nothing here.
>> Okay.
>> I apologize.
>> Listen, I have to assure for my safety, too, sir.
>> No, no, I fully understand. I fully understand.
>> Go ahead. Go to the bathroom.
>> I'll leave the door open.
>> Have you uh have you been drinking all >> a little bit?
>> Okay. How much did you have to drink?
>> Like probably like one or two shots.
>> Okay. Did you smoke any weed marijuana?
Take any other drugs? No, not today. No.
>> Okay.
>> None.
>> All right. She's going to come in, file a report. Okay. So, we just want to make sure that you're going to be okay watching the show or another. You have to have the nanny stay with you.
>> File a report.
>> What does that mean?
>> Making a report.
>> Domestic violence case.
>> Yes.
>> For what?
>> For the incident today. She mentioned that something happened yesterday where she was pushed down. So, she has a right to file a report. We can't deny her. So, she wants to come in. So, we just want to make sure someone's going to be careful and watch the children.
>> All right. Am I getting arrested then?
>> No, >> she's finger.
>> I just explained.
>> So, there's another court case for me.
>> Yeah. If she's coming into file for restraining order, if it's granted, we're going to have to come back here and serve you. You're going to have to vacate the premise if it's granted.
Okay.
>> So, just so you have just so you're aware of what's going to be going on.
All right. So, obviously, don't go anywhere. If it is granted, we're going to have to serve you. Okay.
What is going on in this world?
>> Like I told you, you went to the lawyer.
Do you have any documents stating that she doesn't live here any longer?
>> We have it all caught on a Zoom camera.
>> Do you have documents stating that?
>> No, I don't. I do not. I do not.
>> So, contact your lawyer right now and have him have him send you every document that you need.
>> Okay.
>> Sir, she's suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder. For sure.
>> Is that diagnosed by a doctor?
>> It needs to be. Okay. Well, >> we can't just go by your diagnosis on it. Okay.
>> Understood.
>> So, you're okay with the kids?
>> No one said you're getting arrested. No one said you're getting arrested.
>> You're okay with the kids?
>> What's the What's the police report for?
You don't need it.
>> She doesn't need it. Please don't advise her.
>> You can't deny her. We can't deny her filing report if she wants to.
>> Then, let me fill one out. Let's fill one out.
>> Okay.
>> So, listen to me. Listen.
>> Let's fill a couple out.
>> You You gave me You gave me your statement, right? What is your statement that happened today?
>> It's on camera.
>> She's filing a police report. I'm going to file a police report for her.
>> It's the same report. So, whoever It's the same report. Her state is going to be recorded.
>> Okay. She's wishing to apply for a restraining order, which she has the right to do.
>> She is.
>> Okay.
>> Is she doing that?
>> I just told you that. Yes.
>> She is applying for it.
>> Yes. That's what I told you. That's why I told you not to go anywhere. If it is granted, we're going to have to come back and serve you.
How do you know if it's granted or not?
>> The judge makes a determination and then we'll come back here and speak to you if it is if it is granted.
>> I can't keep doing this.
>> I just explained that to you.
>> You guys need to find another living arrangements that or some I told you the last time we were here that you guys can't be living together. Obviously, this >> Why is she here and why is she harassing me every time she comes home?
that but that that's what I just explained to you.
>> Why is she doing that to you?
>> I don't know. I can't answer that question. But you guys have a police report and I'm not doing anything about it.
>> Am I not standing up for myself?
>> No one said that.
>> Is that what I'm not doing? Is that where I'm wrong?
>> She should have the TRO against her.
>> Okay.
>> What? So what happened that you would want to apply for a TR?
>> She's being aggressive. I mean, she's been nasty for a long time. And um if I had my phone on me, can I open up my phone?
>> Do you have your phone?
>> Yes, sir.
>> Can Okay, mama. Daddy feed you soon.
>> Sir, I think she broke into my phone.
>> How would she on that? cuz she I I she has all my passcodes and everything and I don't care for it that she has my passcodes because I have nothing to hide.
>> So maybe you should pass.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay, here it comes.
>> Anything happened today or recently?
>> No, she's just >> she's just been >> So this is my car all scratched up. Oh no, we took that >> and then she hit the hood.
We took that.
>> You have a phone number?
>> Yeah.
>> Is she here? Is she on the phone?
>> She's 3 minutes away.
>> Okay. What's her phone number for you?
>> All right. Was she was she here when you were here?
>> No.
>> No. Okay. So, she called you after she had already left. So, you didn't witness any type of dispute between the two of them?
>> No. I was in Modi at the little gym with the little girl.
>> Okay. And then you came back. She was already gone.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay.
>> She didn't witness any type of dispute or argument between them.
>> No.
>> What? Okay. What did she tell you?
>> She told me that they got in a fight and then he told me he threw her on the ground.
>> Okay. What time?
>> He was on the phone and I was like, >> "So, how long were you here for?" I've only been here like Well, >> today Yeah. Well, I started at 8 >> 8 a.m. So, you've been here all day with the kids alone all day. I left at 3 and then I just got back like >> You That's when you took her to You took the daughter to the little gym and then you just got back a little bit ago.
>> Yeah. A little bit ago.
>> Okay. She was already gone >> there for like 10 like not even 10 minutes. We weren't even in there for >> inside. Yeah. You got back. Okay.
>> All right. When she gets back, we're going to see we're going to talk to her.
just got to stay a minute and see what's going on and then you're uh free to go, right?
>> What do I do in this situation? Like I'm getting paid to be here. Like >> if there's a concern for your safety, if he's yelling and screaming, you fear he's going to do something, you call us.
>> Can I take the kids? Like I'm getting paid to take care of these kids to a certain >> I mean, it's best to call us.
>> You know, >> that's that's the issue I'm having is leaving the kids.
>> Yeah.
>> Like I don't feel comfortable leaving the kids when he's like that.
>> Mhm. And obviously their safety, if you're concerned about their safety and you do take them, I would come straight to the police department and report it.
I wouldn't just take them and drive off cuz then it could be seen as you're taking the kids. Yeah, >> that's what I was >> That's why that's why we I don't want to get into a messy situation like that.
Okay. Especially if he comes in and claims something or tries to file a complaint.
>> That's why but if if it's a safety thing and you fear for the safety, if you come straight to the police department and report it, then we could take it from there. All right.
>> You know, you know, it would it would show that you're concerned for their safety, not that you just took them and drove off, you know, >> but the best thing to do is just call us. It's a small town. We can get here right away, you know. He's >> got here. If he's ever yelling and screaming and you're fear for your safety or the children's safety, call us right away so we can come here and and at least calm everything down, figure out what's going on, and then looks like her, she just passed there, so she'll be here in a minute.
>> Oh, you saw her?
>> It look like a blue BMW.
>> All right. Just give us another minute.
>> Huh?
egg war. The female's back on scene.
I'm so sorry about >> Okay. All right. We're audio video recording as you know. Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Uh so what happened?
>> Nothing. I came home to help him with the kids. He >> It's way down here. Okay.
>> Yeah. He cannot. It's kind of cold. Let me go by the garage.
>> Okay. Um, I came down I came from like gym to help him with the kids because I knew he was all alone and the nanny took my daughter around 3:00 to the gym which she does every Thursday. Uh, I came home, he was belligerent, my baby was crying. I was going to feed the baby. He threw the baby at me. Also, he pushed me down the stairs or actually not pushed but he threw me against the table.
>> And then I left.
>> Okay.
>> And I have apartment.
>> How long How long ago did this all happen? We're trying to get get a time frame.
>> 4:30.
4:35. Actually, 4:45.
>> 4:45.
>> Yeah.
>> So, about an hour ago.
>> Yes.
>> Okay.
A little more. Are you hurt?
>> You're staying, right?
>> Are you staying?
>> All right. Let's Let's Okay. So he pushed you where? Which stairs did he push you down? The uh >> He didn't push me down the stairs. Like in the living room there's a sofa. He's sitting by, you know, by the window. And he pushed me onto the sofa.
>> Yeah. And then he spit on me, too. And then he was recording me.
>> Okay. Were you injured at all?
>> No, but he pushed me down the stairs yesterday. I have a butt, like swollen butt.
>> Was that reported?
>> No.
>> Okay. Does it still hurt now?
>> No.
>> No. Okay. So now you're not living here anymore. At night I am not, but during the day I still own this house with him. So I cannot legally leave the house.
>> Okay.
>> And the CPS is involved and they know that as long as one child, one adult is here is not a concern abandonment because he's trying to prove that I abandon the kids.
>> Yeah.
>> And also I have issue of mental disorder. So he's trying to prove that I'm mentally unfit so he can take the pro like the house and the kids.
>> So that's why for my own sanity and I have a high stressful job. I cannot [ __ ] up at work.
>> Okay. So, I stay at like 10:00 or 9:30 when the baby goes to sleep. I go to the >> You leave to to your apartment. Okay.
Yeah. As long as one, you know, as long as someone is here watching the kids, you know.
>> Yeah. No, I I was told that, >> you know, between everything that's been going on, it's best for one of you not for you guys to be living like he doesn't move out. He's from Chicago. I told him to move out. He works remotely.
He can easily go to Chicago and work there. He is not doing that. That's why I had to force him out. You guys show his house. You guys going to have to go through the courts again.
>> The problem is, can I get a TTRO against him today? apply for a Okay, we'll we'll we'll take you inside and we'll uh >> we'll start the application process.
>> And I'm not going to I'm going to get it permanent.
>> That's That's So, we'll handle the application. You'll have to go to court to speak to the judge about getting it transferred into a final. Okay. But you're not injured right now. You don't need any ambulance medical attention.
Okay. All right.
Just uh >> how fast can I get a TRO?
>> We'll take you We'll take you inside.
We'll get uh >> we did it last time. It's it's a whole process.
>> We'll contact the judge and then and then uh it's up to the judge to grant it or not.
>> Okay.
>> Okay.
>> Is he going to remain here with the children?
>> I guess. But I'm going to ask the babysitter.
>> Now, she she mentioned that he may have been drinking and >> Yeah, he drinks every day.
>> You know, if he's if he's intoxicated, >> he drinks every day. So, maybe if you can remove him, maybe he needs to go to mental evaluation. Maybe you can remove him.
>> Has he made any statements to harm himself or others?
>> No.
>> Okay.
>> We don't have any weapons in the house either.
>> No weapons in the house. Okay. All right. All right. Just stand by one second. All right.
>> Can I go?
>> She's going to have to come in with us.
So, I don't know if someone's going to need to stay with the children.
>> So, >> okay. Let us let us get another minute to figure out exactly what's going on.
No, >> just uh she's coming in to to file a report. So, someone may need to stay with the children. Let me just figure out what's going on. Okay. I'll be right with you.
I'm so upset because this keeps happening.
>> You guys got to start thinking about how this is going to affect your kids as they get older. So, um I know this is not my first time here. This is like my third time here. Um >> I'm not saying he needs to move out and he's not moving out.
>> You guys have to have a cordial conversation about that. Whether that's through the TTRO now.
>> No, I'm not a TRO. Yeah, I'm not a TR >> for sure. He's not coming back in this house. I don't give a [ __ ] where he goes.
>> You said you you work until when and then you leave?
>> 9.
>> 9.
>> Sometimes 7:30 cuz the baby goes down >> at night.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay.
>> And then there's some times where you guys overlap and he's here when you're here.
>> Well, he's here from that time. The babysitter leaves at 6:30. So, I have somebody till 6:30. But from 6:30 to 9:00, we are overlapping. 9 actually 9 10:00. So he he does leave the house to >> No, >> he doesn't.
>> He never leaves the house. Yeah. Except to get liquor and food.
>> Okay.
>> And I'm happy you guys are here because he needs to be scared of the police.
That's the only way he [ __ ] gets his [ __ ] together. Otherwise, like I'm going to hit you. I'm going to throw you downstairs. You won't be able to call the police. Like he's scares of Nanny.
He scares me. Yesterday Andy had to leave because of his um antics.
>> We We arrested him the one time and looks like, you know, this is since >> Is he going to be arrested today?
I don't think so.
>> I don't think so. Yeah. And he can't go to a mental hospital either. Evaluation?
Probably not.
>> We We can't make that determination right now based off what we've heard from him. We We can't make that determination right now.
>> I'm sure my babies are crying.
Okay, let me tell you.
>> Is uh custody of your kids something you're going to want to pursue with this TTRO?
>> Yes.
>> Okay.
>> Let me call Chris Bell saying that I might have to stay.
>> Chris Bell, you might have to stay because I have to get a TTRO.
So, but I think they're going to be home with you. You're not going to be alone without him.
Well, they cannot arrest him for anything.
>> So, but the cops will be here with you till I come back.
Yeah. Is that okay?
>> Yeah. You guys going to be here, right?
One of you.
>> I I don't I don't know if one of us is going to stay here.
>> But the thing is like I cannot leave him with the kids then. I have to do do a chiro tomorrow. That's fine. I can come.
>> You can do a TRO whenever you like.
>> Yeah. So, let me just not do it right now.
>> Are you sure?
>> Yeah. Because I need I cannot leave my kids at home alone.
>> You don't think they could they could he could be cordial with your babysitter?
No.
>> No. There's no chance.
>> So, what is the officer doing upstairs?
>> They're talking to Bill. I have no idea what they're what they're asking and what they're saying.
They're trying to get both stories.
They're probably going to We're we're here to deescalate whatever is going on. Whatever happened, we're here to bring it down and restore the peace >> and just make sure nothing else happens.
>> I mean, thank God the kids were not injured, >> but the baby was crying profusely.
>> Does he ever threaten to hit the kids?
>> No.
>> No. He's a better parent than me, actually. I am a little bit more short-teered than him because I had a horrible pregnancy. He stressed me out.
So, I've been taking care of the kids most of the time, so it's understandable. and I have a high stressful job. So, you know, I'm the >> Do you work in the area?
>> No, I work in the city. Columbia Hospital.
We have a nice house. We He has a nice bike. He has like three cars. Like, what do you need to be happy? I bought this car because he damaged my car. Then I damaged his car in turn, but then he wouldn't let me drive this car in the snow. So I had to buy a [ __ ] new car. And now he's saying you can take the car back except what for? Take the car, shove it up your ass. Like seriously, who does that?
First he was like, I'm going to give you the house. He's not giving me [ __ ] Not giving me [ __ ] >> His job is based out of Chicago.
>> No, it's remote.
>> But it's based out of Chicago or >> No, I don't know. It's I don't know. But like it's remote so he doesn't have to go in at all. So he can work up from home. That's what I'm saying. He can go back to Chicago or get our apartment here. Now somebody was like tell telling me to give my apartment. I said if I give my apartment up I have no safety.
He can come there kill me and nobody would know >> cuz you know where you live.
>> No. Thank God.
>> Just keep it that way.
I don't think he's really um >> like he needs to get a mental evaluation at least because he's really depressed and angry and not the first time. He has mental abuse problems. He has alcohol, weed, smoking. I mean, you name it, he does it.
I don't even know how he's able to maintain a job to be honest. Well, with the TTRO, it goes on your record, right?
TRO. Um, depends if it gets if it gets dropped or not. I'm I'm not sure.
>> Okay. Because it's gonna be permanent this time. I'm not dropping it.
>> Yeah. So, I mean, I think I think you know how it works. You get the temporary one first. Once that gets granted, uh, we give you a court date for the B County and then that's where you have your final restraining order hearing.
>> And then, I mean, once the TTRO is done and it's granted, >> he cannot be in this house ever, right?
It's it's out of it's out of our hands unless he comes to the house unless he contacts you. So the restraining order is effective until your court date.
>> Mhm.
>> Can't contact you in any way. No emails, no texts, no uh hand mail like in your mailbox. Can't contact you.
>> Why can So what is why the TTRO can is acceptable today versus before?
>> I'm sorry.
>> Why is acceptable today? He's acting >> the TTRO.
>> Yeah, >> you can apply for a temporary restraining order whenever you'd like >> for verbal abuse cuz he was doing I wasn't sure.
>> Verbal, physical, whenever you, you know, you can apply for whatever. It's just up to the judge whether >> to see if enough evidence.
>> Exactly.
>> So, for right now, I think there's enough evidence for the judge to approve it.
>> For me, I I couldn't say for sure whether the judge is going to approve it or not. There's a past. There's a restraining order in the past. Might they might be more inclined to approve it, but I can't be for uh >> and another thing is I want to move away far from him. I want to go to Long Island and I hope the judge can approve that because I don't want to be close to this guy at all.
>> You that's that's something that you're able to do.
>> Yeah. Now I'm able to do with that this TTRO >> custody over the children. That's that's all handled within the court.
>> Um you'd have to go I'm not sure if they do that in the the restraining order court or if that's going to be done through family court.
>> Um that's all stuff we can give you.
>> This can be this can Yeah. This can be like this should be a reason for him not to have custody. Look, I don't know the whole story. Um, you you definitely know better than I do. So, I mean, that's all for for you to tell the judge. Uh, whether you want to do the restraining order today and we get you on the phone with the judge today or if you want to come in tomorrow, when what whenever you'd like.
>> I'll prefer to come in tomorrow.
>> 24/7 is when whenever you can.
>> 24/7.
>> 24/7.
>> Okay. Then I'll come at night. 9:30 because I want to put the babies to sleep and then come.
>> It's when it's whenever you want to do it.
>> And is it on Saturdays, too?
>> Monday through Sunday 24/7.
>> Okay. I thought yeah on Saturday it would be easier >> because I want to be in a good mind state.
>> Yeah. Look how honestly because I don't want to be like uh you know like angry and upset and then you know affects how I'm speaking to you guys and you know like I want to be credible. I am credible but I just want to be in a better shape cuz right now I'm so angry at him that I want to [ __ ] kill him.
>> Give me one second.
She's going to apply for a TRL and escort her back to the headquarters.
>> Says she wants to do it later.
>> She doesn't want to do it. Have her son off. Then she doesn't want to do it though.
>> Okay.
>> On a victim.
>> Very good.
>> She doesn't want right.
>> Yeah.
>> Sorry. Should I have your name right?
Oh, I remembered.
>> I'm I actually have a pretty decent memory.
>> You must be good with girls then.
>> No, I wish. The last name is Ali, right?
>> Of course. Yeah.
>> His name's >> Does he have a middle initial?
>> Yes.
>> Do you have the names from previous say the 11th or 12th? 12th.
Do you know his birthday?
>> Yes. Um, >> same last name, right?
>> Yes.
>> Spell your first name again.
You have a middle initial.
>> No.
>> Date of birth.
What is Are you going to remain here?
>> Okay. Is that how it's been?
>> Yeah, but at night I leave. If he's not getting mental evaluation, nothing, right?
>> No, he's just he's not going to leave.
>> Okay. So then I will leave at 10:00.
>> Listen, man. Like I told him, I'm going to tell you, we don't have anything criminal right now. I don't have enough to give him mental evaluation. I'll give I don't have >> That's fine. I'm just getting a TRO.
That's That's all it is. I mean, >> are you coming or not?
>> Not right now. I'll come on Saturday.
>> Okay. So, we're going to have I'm sure he advised you. You're going to sign that you don't want one right now. And then when you do >> But then I can get it, right?
>> You can get one anytime you want.
>> Yeah, I'll be there Monday. I mean, Saturday morning, first thing.
>> But when you go up there, is there going to be a problem?
>> No. No. I I know how to deal with him.
>> All right. Well, let me go tell them.
>> Okay. So, um, just initials here. I'm going to give you your copy and then signature on the bottom.
>> Where?
>> Right there. Right there is perfect. And then I'm going to give you your copy of this. Um, obviously right now this says you don't want a restraining order at this moment. Uh, doesn't mean you can't get one later like myself told you.
>> I'm coming.
>> Um, but this is for your records. So, this is for you to keep.
That's your coffee.
>> Um, if you guys like you think there's going to be problems if you >> Yeah. No, I leave at night. So, don't worry.
>> But I'm talking about from now until the time you leave.
>> Well, she's going to be here till 7:00.
I I I if I know I'll call the police again. Don't worry. I >> Best thing I Best thing is just don't even engage with him.
>> Yeah. I'll call the police.
>> Yeah. And if something does happen, I'll >> call the case. Yeah. Okay. Sounds good.
You can't come from the bottom.
>> Just uh you come.
>> Let me let me make sure that they leave first before we go.
>> You want to go from there? She's there.
Yeah.
>> You want me to close the garage door or leave it open?
>> Uh you can close in a second. I just want to make sure before I let you part ways.
>> Yeah, I can go in, right?
>> Not yet. Not yet. Let's just make sure Let me make sure he's >> Yeah, you can go. Okay.
How often is she here?
>> Uh, five days a week. And then I have another 90 on weekends. And then I have another lot of money to spend.
>> Yeah.
>> I might even leave earlier, officer, if he's gonna act.
>> I'm sorry.
>> I might leave earlier if he's going to start acting again. That's the best thing to do if he's going to start acting up. The best thing to avoid.
Listen, >> listen. Can I go now? Because after you guys leave, because I don't want my daughter to see, it's going to be hard for her to see me.
>> Okay. It, you know, it's up to you. I mean, you know, this is your house, too.
Like, you could do what you please.
>> If you want to avoid yourself from any if you want to remove yourself from any other incidents, any other verbal arguments, physical arguments, whatever it is, it's probably best to leave. If you want to come back, you can come back to uh do the restraining order at our headquarters. Um, >> no. But I feel bad for the kids. I'll stay.
>> It's up to you. It's up to you. You have your babysitter here. If >> No, she's leaving now.
>> She's leaving. Okay. Um, again, it's it's it's totally up to you. I would say just, you know, separate for now. Let him cool down a little bit. Um, the end of the day, it's your decision, but I I can't advise you what to do at at your house. So, >> what happened?
>> Yeah, I can't go inside.
>> They should let us go now. Okay.
>> So, he doesn't want me here, too.
>> I have to go in.
>> He doesn't want her here.
>> Yeah, that's fine. Okay. You want to leave, daddy?
>> We can't tell her to go stay.
>> Just call me if you don't want.
>> Okay. Can I go now?
>> Yeah. Signed off.
>> Yeah. Okay.
>> Bye.
>> She's going back in the residence.
>> Come out in >> She wanted to go back inside. It's fine, >> huh?
>> Yeah, she's fine.
>> Well, like I have a question.
>> I work full time for them.
>> I mean, you're going to have to figure out with the wife.
>> As of right now, >> he's going to keep telling me to come, though, and he's going to do it. He does it every single day. This is just the first time I call.
>> Like, what should I do? I've never been in this situation before. I've been doing this for 17 years. Never have I witnessed something like this.
>> We're notifying DCP&P. They're going to do an investigation and then they'll make a determination >> who's going to be uh >> Hey, hey, hey. She's hitting me. She's hitting me right in front of you.
>> She's hitting me right in front of you.
>> She's hitting me right in front of you.
>> You saw that, right?
>> I didn't do anything.
>> No, you got the key to open the door.
>> Sorry about that, Ray. When she came in, she did that. My son is getting cold.
>> Put your child down.
Put your child down. Put your hands behind your back.
>> Why?
>> He hit me.
>> Put your hand Put your hands behind your back.
>> You hit him in front of us.
>> Yeah, but he hit me.
>> Put your hands behind your back and stop yelling. Stop. Okay.
>> Why would you do that?
>> Shut up.
>> I need my lawyer present.
>> No, you don't need a lawyer right now.
You can contact them. Let me GET MY [ __ ] BAG.
>> YEAH, >> LET ME GET MY BAG.
>> Stop screaming. Okay, >> let me get my bag.
>> Screaming.
>> Where's your bag? We'll get it.
>> You're going to jail.
>> And I need a [ __ ] pen. I'm bleeding.
>> I'm bleeding.
>> Let's go outside.
>> Get me [ __ ] shoes.
>> Where is she, [ __ ] I need my Lord present.
>> Okay.
>> Give me my bag.
>> We're going to get your bag.
>> Give me my bag and my pain. I CANNOT LEAVE.
>> GO DOWNSTAIRS. Walk downstairs. Walk downstairs.
>> Give me my bag.
>> What's going to happen? You're going to arrest me and let me go, right? You get past this for simple assault simple assault and you'll be released.
>> Yes. Fine.
>> After the judge makes determination.
>> Okay. Sounds good.
>> Hold on. Hold on. You have anything in your pockets? No.
>> Okay. I'm going use the back of my hand just to check your pockets. All right.
>> Can you get me a pad? Can you get my bag and my pads? I need pads. They're in the bathroom.
Equest one female under simple assault.
>> 1827 Do I have to walk home? I can get an Uber, right?
>> You can get an Uber later on when you release. Sure.
>> Okay. I'm going to go home.
What's going on?
>> This is up to you to decide, man. This is the third time I've been here, and there's probably been more times, >> but it's never been because of me.
>> You got to talk to your lawyers.
>> Not anymore.
>> Take care of your children. Talk to your lawyers.
>> She's going to come back here when we're done processing.
Put the pads on top of the bag.
>> My bag and a pad.
>> I have the pads here.
>> Okay. But I need my bag, please. I have no phone, nothing.
>> It's going to You're going to be processed and then >> Yeah, but I can't come home. I'm going to [ __ ] walk >> unless you guys going to drop me, which I doubt it.
>> Probably not.
>> Yeah.
>> PD16 headquarters.
>> Headquarters.
>> Going to be transporting one female under >> starting mileage 48690.8.
I'll have a PD20 following.
1832.
>> I need my bag. I cannot walk home.
What do you guys don't understand?
Okay, let me [ __ ] file a complaint against you guys.
[ __ ] [ __ ] Heat. Heat.
Heat. Heat.
16 quarters arriving at headquarters.
48691.3 is ending mileage. Opening side open, please.
backwards. Can you check running? See if there's a female available for search.
Heat. Heat.
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