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ERINN IS HAVING AN ISSUE WITH HER 62 YEAR OLD MANAdded:
Hi YouTubes, it's me Zachary Michael also.
Hello. Not my friends, not my family.
How are you all doing? Oh, what am I wearing?
Oh, what am I wearing? I'm wearing the Y'all are Weirdly shirt from the new Zachary Michael merch line. Um, it features other merch that says not for me and my family and also one that says, "Let's get to let's get to."
So, get into it. You can go check that out at zachary.dasherie.com.
Get into it, divas. Get into it, divas.
Um, yeah, that's what I'm wearing. Thank you so much for asking, chat. Thanks so much for asking what I'm was wearing.
Oh, and if you're here on Twitch, you could just put exclamation point merch into uh the chat and it'll pop up. Do you guys think Aaron has ever been on archive of our own.org? Is that AO3? Is that is that where they post the fanfic?
The fanfic?
Do you think Do you think she's into that?
Do you do you guys think Aaron knows what dead dove do note eat? I don't I don't know what that means. Should I not have read that out loud?
Should I have not I probably read worse out loud, I guess.
I guess. What kind of fanfic do you think she'd write? She'd probably write M Preg.
Joe Biden. M prag fanfix.
Oh.
Um, what is impreg? It's male pregnancy.
It's a a specific type of fanfiction that that involves men getting pregnant.
Yep. Yep. Yep.
Um, as a trans man, I can't wait to be Imper for real. Live your truth, Ron Bone. Live your truth.
Live your truth. Um, okay. So, yeah, we are catching up with I I'm all over the place, Divas. I'm so sorry. Um, we are catching up with Aaron. And these are clips.
These are clips from various videos of errands between the dates of May 13th and May 27th, courtesy of the one the only Jen 2013.
Do you guys think Aaron has ever read the lost lost to time fanfic gyno bar Harry Styles where Harry Styles was a gynecologist? I forgot that's that's part of of some of y'all's lore.
Let's stop talking about what fanfics we think she has or hasn't read. Oh my gosh. Oh, there's a prediction, chat. There's a prediction. Will she haul a beaded bag? And it has to happen in the clips that that Jen included in here. Okay. Cuz I don't know what happens in her actual videos.
outside of this.
Outside of this All right. Um, if you guys have participated in the prediction and you're ready to get this Aaron update started, could you all put some 69s in the chat?
Aaron, oh, Aaron, what are we going to do today? Oh, the gold 69's are here.
The gold 69s are here, divas. If you're tier two, if you have at least tier two, um you can in fact use the gold 69s.
Let's go. Let's go. Let's get to Let's get to Exactly.
Wait, is Jane's is Jane's name Jen? Am I a potato? Well, potatoes on the chair behind me. Um Wuma, that is you. You might have missed that one inside joke, that one singular inside joke. Um because somebody in and Aaron's comments was like in Zachary Michael's little friend Jen.
Jen who who keeps an eye out for everything you do. And she was talking about Jane. So when we So when we watch when we watch Aaron, I refer to her as Jen.
Sorry. Sorry if um sorry to to not explain that better.
All right, I'm gonna Oh, Aaron, calm down. I didn't say I didn't say play. I was just trying to I was just trying to get this started.
Maybe they conflated Jane and Jen Chapen. I think I think it's just the the mimosa and and Aaron's comments.
How's the old Jen Chapen? She's good.
She was popping in for a while. I think um I think she I think she pops in and out every once in a while when she's able. Um but I think she's she's okay.
She hasn't been she hasn't been posting as much on YouTube these days cuz I think she's just been prioritizing like other things like her family and she she works a full-time job outside of YouTube. Um so yeah, here we go. Here we here we go. Here we go. Here we go again. Ladies, what's your problem? Men >> my channel. Hey everybody. It is late. I am hot you guys. I am wearing this Never Ending Story t-shirt that I got from Teimu. I'm still wearing this necklace cuz I'm too lazy to take it off. It's from It's by Piper K from Marshalls. And these little earrings are from Teimu. I got If you caught my last video about my internet dating, I got my ree.
>> Can I turn her up a little bit? Yeah, I can. I can.
You let me know if she's too loud.
Timu, I got, if you caught my last video about my internet dating, I got my rejection text from the 45year-old card game HR director loves to play cards guy. Wait, I don't remember him.
I don't remember him. Okay, wait. Jane Jane has an update in the chat. Uh, last we watched, she went on a date with a 45-year-old HR director who said he needed a few days to process before he wanted to see if they see each other again. She also went out with the 62year-old CPA. He gave her something to remember him by with a kiss. Yes. And arranged to have another date. Golf going mini golfing. Right. And we were rooting for 62year-old CPA guy. That's who we were rooting for. We kind of left behind the guy that said he needed time to process. We said, "Girl, then it's a no. Then it's a no."
>> And um it just said, "Hi, I've been thinking about our date and I feel like we did not have a connection." I'm like, "Dude, okay. Yeah, I felt that way, too."
>> Okay, >> so that's fine. I'm >> Oh, I was like, "Are you mad? Are you mad?"
The thing about Aaron is that I know if I had a bad date, she would be the best brunch debrief. She would read him down, would she?
I don't know.
>> Okay. You win some, you lose some. I didn't really I could have lived without the text, but um that was polite of him in this day and age of ghosting.
>> I was going to say, you mad that he texted you?
>> So, oh well, we can cross HR director off our list now. Tomorrow night I am going to play miniature golf.
>> Let's go to dinner.
>> And then Well, here's what happened today. So, there's the other guy that I went on a Bumble date with and really hit it off with is a 62year-old >> Yes.
>> CPA.
>> My man, my man. My man.
>> And he was really nice. He was funny. He was fine. We've also talked on the phone since then. and we seem to have good conversations going. I mean, tomorrow night we're going to play miniature golf and we're going to go to dinner afterward. And then today he texts me a picture of this big bottle of vodka and he said, "Look what?"
>> This big what? No, I thought she was going to say dick. I thought she was going to say he texted me a picture of this big old dick. But a bottle of vodka. I mean, for for Oops. For Miss For Miss Aaron. a big bottle of vodka is probably just about the same.
>> What I won at this um business function thing that he went to today. He texted me a picture of this vodka and he was like, "Look what I won today."
He said, "Would you care to share it?"
>> Word.
>> I said, "Um, sure. That that sounds like fun." Yum. And he said, "Well, what if we Here we go.
>> Here we go. If we go out to dinner after miniature golf and then maybe go over to my place and share this bottle of vodka and WATCH A MOVIE. YES, WATCH A MOVIE.
YES, watch a movie. Yes. Yes, we are watching mo. If y'all don't remember, if y'all don't remember, back in the day, she used to talk about watching movies watching movies and her nails popping off. Her her fake Timu nails popping off while she's watching movies.
Oh dear.
And I said, "Um, yeah, let's see how things go." And maybe that seems like a lot in one night. I didn't say that to him, but putt putt dinner and then movie watching at his place with a y'all. I'm not I'm I'm putting I'm putting my phone off to the side.
Somebody is watching in chat and just texted me about liking D too much.
Big bottle of vodka for him. For me, it's not a work night, but it also is a lot. And it kind of made me sad because I'm like, "Oh, man. He's trying to get This is really ugly."
>> Oh, yeah, it is. Um, >> that's that is fugly >> trying to get me over to his place on the second date.
I don't care. Uh, I like the guy, but >> not landfill core.
>> I am I this shirt I I'm >> can wear it to work with black pants.
>> And that's the only place I think I would wear it.
>> Girl, they're going to talk about you.
Girl, they're going to talk about you.
Would I wear it on a date? No. So, I don't know. It was kind of whatever. But to to me, that's like doing a lot, too.
And then what does that leave for like a Saturday? Like what if we want to go out on like Saturday night or something?
Like we've already watched a movie at his place and I don't know. I'm overthinking it.
>> You are. You are.
>> I might wear this ring tomorrow.
You want to come over and split this bottle of vodka?
I think that's it. Maybe I'm kind of blue because THE GUY >> YOU WANT TO COME over and split this bottle of vodka.
>> The way Po just turned his head and looked at me.
>> I'm trying so hard to get me to come over to his place already on date number two.
>> Girl, you like him.
>> Care to share this bottle of vodka with me?
>> Girl, you like him. Just do it. I mean, if he would have waited until Saturday or something.
>> You're You're putting all of these fake madeup rules. You're putting all these fake madeup rules on this. This man is finally doing what you wanted, which is making plans for you. He is he is taking the initiative and saying, "We're going to do XYZ things." And you know what? If you if you watch movies, [ __ ] tomorrow night. You can do it again on Saturday. There ain't no rules that that you can't that y'all can't get back together on Saturday.
>> Would have felt more appropriate um on date number two.
I don't know. I mean, we have been talking on the phone a lot. We'll see how it goes.
>> She's just saying stuff that stuff because we are programmed to feel easy if we give it up too soon. Thankfully, I never ascribed to this belief. Yeah, I think it's some of that. I think there's like some level of like self- sabotage as well. Um I I also do want to acknowledge that like I think there are lots of crazy expectations on like what is and is not acceptable for women. Um certainly also for like women of her age. So I'm sure she's putting a lot of pressure on herself. But he's 62. What is he waiting on? How much time does he have left to watch movies?
Lizzy.
Lizzy, >> I might just say, "Look, man, why don't we do that Saturday? Tomorrow, like tomorrow night, we'll go to putt pit.
We'll go to dinner."
>> Okay. Also, that's also fine. That's also fine to say. Then just say that then. Just say, "Hey, I feel like we have a lot planned already tomorrow.
Let's Let's plan on a third date and we could just go to your place, watch movies, and drink vodka.
>> Man, I am broke. I hope it's not my turn to pay because I am broke. Are these fish earrings? I just I just want I'm Jen, thank you so much for including that clip because because you know you you know you know all the girlies that are obsessed with Aaron love to tell me that she's not actually broke.
Um straight straight from Aaron's mouth are so big.
God. Oh god.
>> Diva.
>> Like me and my big mouth. You guys, I really don't want to play pie pie tomorrow night. Not. That's another confession right there. I mean, >> what do you mean? That sounds so That's so fun and it's so cute because if I remember correctly, he he planned that for her based on her talking about like growing up learning how to play golf with her dad or something like that. Right. It has been a second since since we watched her last, but I if I remember I was like, "Oh, that was such a cute story." We all We all thought it was so cute.
And but it's more fun in the fall. All right. Hey, I'm ready to play some golf and split some vodka, baby.
You make my love.
Cute wig of shame.
Is it a new Can I wear it to work?
Probably not. Huh? I've been through a lot at work. I should probably not.
Yeah, I like it. Okay. All right. So, there's one wig. Gez, I wonder why she's broke. Jamie, thanks for the bets. No, for for real, for real. She she's out here complaining about the idea of having to to pay for dinner. Um, we should pin the merch site. Can you put it in the chat? Yeah, it must have it was pinned at one point.
Um, yeah. Exclamation point merch. Uh, at any point you can you can bring it up.
Oh, come on. Wig.
>> Is it asymmetrical?
>> Did you just say wig? All right. Do I have this >> wig?
>> I mean, it's >> Do y'all know that reference? Do y'all know the wig reference? The American Idol wig reference.
>> My name is Noah Davis. I'm from Royal, Arkansas, and I'm 18 years old.
>> Wow. 18.
>> Wig. Okay. Wig. Did you just say wig?
>> Yes.
>> I know. Wig. I feel that already.
>> What is wig? What is wig?
>> No, it's not your language. It's just for us. Wig, we're on here.
>> We're here together.
>> I love you.
>> I love you so much.
>> Oh my god.
>> Noah.
>> Yes, sir.
>> Wig.
>> All right. I like the pink one better.
Okay. There's that wig. It's a pretty color on somebody else. I I think the pink is more flattering on me.
>> Sure.
>> My day was okay.
>> Oh, it's a it's a new video. I was like, "Oh my god, she changed clothes."
Monday. I mean, I'm employed and I have my health and I have a roof over my head and let's just practice gratitude. So, what else has been going on? We're going to open up this Fab Fit Fun box.
>> Oh, so a note about this a note about this video in particular is that she actually took this video down. Um, I went I went back and forth in talking with Jane about whether to include this.
Um, cuz I don't I am un I was not sure why she deleted it. Uh, but apparently it's just cuz maybe she overshared a bit in it. Um, and and that's why she took it down or maybe maybe we'll get some understanding and clarification later.
Um, but as far as I know, she doesn't dox anybody um and things like that. And so when I was considering like, ooh, do I want to do I want to react to something she's deleted or not, um, I ultimately landed on if this was anybody else I watched and I had access to to the deleted content, we would just watch it, you know. Um, and so that's what we're going to do.
Make sense? Sound good? Sound good? Like if if Shantel had deleted something, um we would be watching the deleted content as long as I had access to it.
>> Uh I have been dating the CPA. We love to play >> miniature golf and then we went out to dinner and we went back to his place and just literally, not figuratively, watched a movie.
>> Just literally.
So, y'all didn't [ __ ] So, y'all didn't [ __ ] That's too bad.
>> Um, I mean, I'm not gonna say there wasn't some I mean, it was fine. I can't talk about a lot of I cannot actually at all talk about physical intimacy on this channel anymore.
Um, and then >> so, so you did so what did you do?
So, what did you do?
Make out mouth stuff.
>> We went out uh Saturday and saw the Michael Jackson movie. I thought it was okay, you guys.
I wasn't >> enthralled by it. Michael Jackson was the very first concert I ever saw.
>> Oh.
>> And um we saw the Michael Jackson movie. It was okay. It was fine. I I would say wait till it comes on streaming, >> but I know a lot of people are fanatic about it, so I I guess it's just a matter of taste or something. But we saw that. We went out to dinner. We went back to his place.
>> I'm sure you did >> another movie.
>> Y'all watching a lot of movies, Aaron.
And um then tonight after work, I went over to his place and we watched he only has Prime. So we're watching stupid movies like The Perfect Stalker >> The Daughter Stalker did in the water >> just random random movies. And >> I kind of love that though. That's such 62year-old behavior.
Listen, my mom my mom is in her 60s and that's that's um Mama Michael behavior for real. For real.
>> It's good. It um it's not working out between us physically.
>> Oh, >> and that's about all I can say on this channel is that um we have fun when we're >> together, but physically >> it's not working. I don't know if he's not attracted to me or >> if it's his age and >> maybe he needs a little pharmaceutical help. I don't know.
>> She girl said, "I can't talk about I can't talk about anything physical. I'm I'm not allowed to talk about anything physical, but this 62year-old CPA I'm dating can't get it up.
This this 62year-old man I'm dating, he can't get it up, by the way, just so you know. So, things aren't working out physically between us.
Oh, or I'm I'm I'm feeling like it's my fault that physically we are not able to make a connection and it's really I just got home tonight from his place and um >> Oh, so this is this is fresh. She said I just got home and experienced it not working. So, uh it's on my mind. It's on my mind. you know, we we tried and uh we just couldn't get it to work out physically.
So, and I felt sad when we said goodbye because I felt like it was very final, like goodbye.
Okay. Well, first of all, I'm sad for her cuz she seems to actually like him as a person.
And so, that's so that's that it's sad. It's sad that she's like ending it because of this one thing.
Um, and because I I personally I think sex can look like all different kinds of things, right? Like maybe he can't get it up, but there's still things he could do for you, you know? Like there are still other things.
Um, like sex is absolutely like I I think probably important for everybody, right?
Like I I understand why that would be a priority in in terms of like your relationship, but like talk to him about it. Have have a conversation.
I see why she deleted this though. No, no, for real. cuz she is honestly outside of her just like talking about physical stuff when she just got done saying she wasn't supposed to be talking about physical stuff. Um she really is airing this man's business out.
She really is airing this man's business out.
Um, and and maybe that's the more important thing cuz I still think it's [ __ ] up that that her job would tell her what she could and couldn't talk about on the internet. But sex is important in a relationship, but it's not everything. The chemistry and emotional relationship is what makes the relationship last. Yeah. I I mean, I think I think we shouldn't we shouldn't give up on this yet. It seems like she really enjoys spending time with this man. Um, and it makes me sad that like out of out of just like genuinely having listened to her talk about so many dating things up until this point, it makes me sad that she finally found somebody like on a personal level that she connected with and now she's going to let this be a barrier.
You know, her name is Aaron cuz she be Aaron people out.
I I appreciate the play on words, >> but I've never had that problem with another man. I kept telling myself that on the way home that I've never had that kind of problem with another man. Well, Diva, it's probably not about you.
>> So, I I don't know what's going on, but um it's like physically his body is not into mine. That's all I can really say.
>> You I I I think it's I think it's a ma probably a matter of him being 62.
Diva, I think it's probably because he's 62.
I I have been sternly told by my boss and HR department that I cannot talk about physical stuff on this channel when it comes to dating.
>> And she done did she done did it.
>> But all I can say is it's not really working out in that department. And um it's very sad. I feel very sad about it.
and I feel like I'm doing something wrong or there's something wrong with me.
>> I mean, I I guess I can understand like why she might feel that way, but I I think she should listen to the parts of her that are also saying like, "Oh, he's just old, you know, like no shade."
But I don't know. Let's see what's in this Fab Fit Bun. That's my update on dating. um trying to date the CPA, but and we have been dating, but >> I really want it to work out.
>> I don't know if it's just going to end up being a platonic thing.
>> I feel like it's it's not going to work out now that she's aired his his uh erectile dysfunction on the internet, but I would love for it to work out.
>> Love, love, love my cream. I we >> little piss baby. Thanks for the 100 bits. was looking for my little piss baby >> or what?
I just feel very very sad like I'm not getting to see that guy again.
>> It was fun. It was funny. He was funny and fun, but I I don't >> I don't know.
>> Um I can't give him what he needs and vice versa. So, I don't really know.
>> I am wearing this dress that I bought from TJ Maxx online. Uh-huh.
>> And this necklace that I bought from TJ Maxx online >> 111 necklace that I already shop >> and um I wore this dress over to his place. I thought I was looking cute.
>> Did not help.
I don't know. You >> Oh my god. She see the problem is is that is that another thing we know about Aaron is that she's incredibly self-deprecating.
And I think that's really playing into this. And I hadn't even considered that until this moment when she said, "I wore this dress to look cute and it didn't help." Um, I I think I think she is incredibly uh hung up on her own perceptions of her looks and so him not being able to get it up for her is making her feel like it's a personal thing. Um, and I don't I don't think that's I don't think that's the case.
How do we know that's actually what's going on if we don't have an honest conversation about it? No, that's that's exactly the thing is that like maybe she should just talk to him about it, you know? I mean, I don't know. Oh, I I hesitate to put myself on blast, but in the past when I've been on like SSRI, like I've had similar issues and you know what I did? I just talked to whoever it was that I was trying to. So, it's just like like you just you just need to have those those conversations and you you can get you it's called communication.
You want to be in a relationship. That's something that's like a requirement and about all aspects of the relationship. You know, guys, that guy just shrinks up like a scared little turtle when he gets around me. I don't know. Am I that hideous? I'm hideous. Right.
>> Well, it's not about you.
>> I feel hideous. And I even asked him. I was like, because the other day he was talking to me and he goes, "Oh, you're funny. You're brilliant."
And then he kind of stopped and I said, "And pretty."
>> I wish I knew less about both Aaron's man and Z.
>> I said I said that was a a past experience in my life.
I do apologize if it feels like I overshared. I also don't think I in general I think it's like important to talk about those things. I think a lot of people who take SSRIs specifically do struggle with that and um do do struggle in like talking about that and I think that that's like important because people still people still still care about like being able to do that while being on SSRI.
I don't know. I I it's not something I'm embarrassed by. So, I apologize though if it feels like too much information to share in this in this situation.
Um, who else was here when we learned Zach wore a jock? I I wore I I honestly bought jock straps for the one purpose of wearing them with my short shorts for softball and then I stopped wearing those short shorts and I haven't I haven't worn them since. The jock straps. Um, I don't I don't find them to be particularly comfortable if I'm being honest, but here we are.
>> And he goes, "Oh, sure. And pretty." And I was like, "That didn't sound very convincing. So maybe he's just not attracted to me."
>> Okay. It's simple.
>> He just Wait, we need to go back and hear that full thing because you're telling me you did ask him and he affirmed you and said that he thought you were attractive and pretty and you just don't believe him.
>> Oh, sure. And pretty. And he goes, "Oh, you're funny. You're brilliant."
>> Wait, I don't know. Am I that hideous?
I'm hideous, right? I feel hideous. And I even asked him. I was like, because the other day he was talking to me and he goes, "Oh, you're funny. You're brilliant."
And then he kind of stopped and I said, "And pretty." And he goes, "Oh, sure.
And pretty." And I was like, "That didn't sound very convincing."
Also, okay, a few things. I saw somebody in the chat say, "No man is is going on multiple dates with a woman if he's not attracted to her." And I absolutely agree. Absolutely agree. And second of all, what what a a beautiful like compliment to get that this man thinks you're funny and that you're smart.
Like like yes, it's important that he finds you attractive, but also that's probably part of what makes you attractive to him.
Anyways, I I she she's just I I think there's a lot of like self-deprecation um that consumes her. So maybe he's just not attracted to me.
>> I don't think that's okay. This is a really cute um gold chain with a toggle clasp, which I know I will wear a lot, but he's also the kind of guy who doesn't shut up when he's making out.
Do you like this? What about this? Can I do this? I'm like, dude, just do it.
Don't ask. If you do something I don't like, I will tell you.
>> Okay.
Also, I think she just I think she just hates communication.
I think it could be really hot to like Colin's going to be like, I wish I knew less about Zach. I think it could be really hot to like have that level of communication of like, oh, we're both enjoying this. We both like this. We we're both into this.
Like I don't you know what I'm like I don't I think that that's I don't know. May maybe maybe I'm just too into communication with the people that I'm with. I don't I don't I don't know.
And also, if he's saying, "Do you like this? Do you like that?" Have you considered saying, "Yes, but be quiet."
Like, "Yes, but stop talking." It It seems like he wants to know what things you enjoy. It seems like he wants to know how to please you, how to pleasure you, and you're sitting over here being like keeping it all into yourself.
Yeah. Oh my gosh. To to just like just be like, "Shh, just keep kissing me."
Like that could be hot for him. Like maybe maybe that would be something.
She's she's such a stick in the mud.
Just tell him just be like less talking. More more sticking your tongue down my throat. The more you're talking, the less the less tongue I'm getting. Like I you know what I'm saying?
I don't know. I don't know.
>> You like this?
What about if I did this?
I'm like, stop, man. Um, so that is one thing about him that's a little bit annoying.
>> Yeah. Why is she telling us this and not him, though? For real.
She she I I have said this before and I'd say this again.
What she wants is some man to be able to just read her mind at any given time.
She just wants and and listen, one thing about men is they're not ever going to do that.
Even if that was even if that was a a madeup superpower that men could have, they're not going to waste it trying to read a woman's mind. They're just they're just not um and that's why you need to to talk and communicate.
Like to me that doesn't like I I'm so overstimulated all the time that that just annoys me. Well, I don't think I have it clasped all the way, but it would look like this. It falls about the same length as the 11-1ven necklace. I look like I've been hit by a truck. I first of all, if you happen to catch a video I posted at 12:30 a.m., >> this is where she explains that she deleted that video. By the way, I still my guy, he has to learn mind readading, but it's just a joke. She really needs to learn the beauty of communication.
Yeah.
Yeah. This is the video of shame. I posted at 12:30 a.m.
>> I guess it was technically Tuesday. I posted it Monday night and it didn't upload until like after midnight.
>> I took that video down. I felt like it was a little too much information.
>> Oh, it was diva. Uh she had it up for a day, not like an instant delete. Okay.
>> And I just didn't really want uh people I work with to see that video. But if you didn't, it was my Fab Fit Fun box that I opened while I was running my mouth. in that Fab Fit Fun box was this leave-in conditioner. And I tried it this morning and oh yuck, you guys. It made my hair so flat, so greasy. I couldn't even pump it up with the um with that wow style on steroids that I love. So, >> I hate I hate to say it. Y'all know what I'm about to say, though.
I hate to say it, but her hair looks the same as it always does to me and my family. got this flat hair today.
I'm also a little bit I just made some fetuccini alfredo and I put too many spices in it and it blew out my taste buds, made my nose run, made my eyes water. So, this is the aftermath of the >> What? What kind of Wait, what kind of spices are we putting into fetuccini Alfredo?
What else is blown out? Not her. He The 62-year-old CPA can't get it up. diva.
She We know she ain't blown out. She just said that.
She just let us know.
I'm not a good cook, but oh well. I tried. And that's about it. If you caught my updates on the gist of my um and I got so many hate >> emails about my grownup decisions as an adult as to how I act on dates.
>> Who is sending her hate emails about that? That's so dumb.
She is in her 50s. She's allowed to try to get freaky with a 62year-old CPA. Please. Did she overshare? Should she maybe be a little embarrassed about that? I don't know. I guess maybe.
>> And a lot of shame on you emails and stuff like that. But anyway, >> I guess maybe if people are like I guess maybe people might have been like you shared way too much about his business. That's about the only thing.
And honestly, you got to go to email.
Just leave a comment. diva, just leave a comment.
>> The gist of that video was that um I've been trying to date this CPA that I met on Bumble. Well, I met him on Bumble, but he's quite the man about town.
He's an upstanding citizen of our of our city. And I to put it my I just said in that video that we have a good time, but I didn't feel like we were really making a physical connection. I'll just leave it like that.
>> So we're still So we're still talking about it. So we're still talking about it.
Work. So you're saying it again.
Wonderful. And then but since then um we're still seeing each other. We're just chilling out >> work.
>> We're not rushing anything. You don't have to send me any shame on you emails.
So there's that. I got I got a text from Here we go. Here we go.
>> Here we go. Let's go.
>> I got a text from the >> Oh, so he doesn't have a big dick is what I'm hearing. He doesn't have a functioning one is what you're hearing.
Big Juicy Naturals.
I am glad to hear they're still trying though. That that makes me feel better cuz she seemed genuinely sad about it.
And um and it seems like she does actually genuinely really like him.
>> DPA and he was like he's got this really big giant bathtub. Now, she keeps saying big, giant, huge, and I keep thinking she is going to talk about his dick, but she actually already described his dick as being a turtle hiding inside a shell.
Whirlpool tub. And no, I've never gotten in it, but he did send a text that said, "Want to come over and take a bath?" And I was like, "Dude, I'm eating fetuccini.
I'm not I'm not No. No.
Dude, I'm eating fetch.
Dude, I'm eating fetuccini.
Spicy fetuccini that's blowing her out.
Is it good for a bath date? You know what, Megan? You're probably right.
Oh god.
I'm not going to answer your Wednesday night booty call at 8:00. What time is it right now? Where's my phone? It's late by the cuz I fell asleep. It's 9:00. Who knows when this is going to get uploaded. Probably another midnight video. Anyway, no, I'm not going over to that guy's house to take a bath at 8:00.
>> Oh god.
>> Yuck.
On a work night.
>> Oh girl, who cares? Who cares if you got to go to work tomorrow? These men, they just have no >> Also, good point, Becca, in the chat.
Girl, him booty calling means he thinks you're hot. He's into you. He thinks you're attractive, diva.
>> Men are want to come over and take a bath, >> dude. You wish.
>> Your men are so Nothing.
>> Diva, why you why are you going to get mad about it now? He He wants you. He wants you. He's down bad. He wants you to come take a bath. Also, this is this is the part that could be so hot, so sexy for you and him. Even if he can't get it up, you know, girl, what do you want? She is so frustrating when it's when it's she gets mad about these things.
>> Do you want to come over and take a bath?
What happened to dinner?
>> YOU'VE HAD DINNER. YOU'VE HAD DINNER LIKE three times. It's okay to go take a bath with him, Diva.
You You can go take a bath with him now.
Imagine he makes you a mixed drink with that huge bottle of vodka. Y'all take a little romantic bath together and then you get out and he he's suddenly he's suddenly standing at full attention ready to get to get to with you. But you're over here being like, "Uh, he thinks I'm ugly." No, he wants you to come take a bath with him, diva, imagine he gives you his huge bottle of vodka. Exactly.
Is the dinner phase of the relationship over? We just moved on to taking baths.
Okay, so um >> Oh, it's another new video. Another new video. We're on to a new video.
>> You happen to catch my video late late Monday night. I ended up taking that video down because it had too much information in it and I just got really paranoid that it was not going to be satisfactory cuz um the place I work I know my boss and HR sometimes watch these videos.
>> That That's crazy that her boss and HR are sitting over there watching watching her videos. I think that's wild. I think that's weirdly especially because most of the time her videos are just her hauling stupid [ __ ] from Timu.
>> I didn't know if I talk too much and I'm not supposed to talk very much about dating or about details of dating on these videos.
>> Like like just to be clear, she's an adult woman. It is okay for her to have sex and talk about having sex. Just to be clear. And it's not like she's filming these things while she's at work.
>> And some of you guys I know were outraged about that, but it is um a public facing job. So, but it's not my real name on this channel, but you never know who's going to find it. Oh, yeah.
So, I took my I privated my video from Monday because I just got paranoid. If you missed my >> Well, that's a little bit of a different story than what you just said.
And the last video she said she privated it because she was getting hate emails about it and she she probably said too much. Now she's saying it's because she got paranoid.
You mean her government name isn't Hey everybody. It's not.
No video Monday. I just did a Fab Fit Fun unboxing and I talked a little bit about this um CPA that I'm dating that I was concerned that we just Oh, and so she's going to go keep talking about it anyways.
She's just going to talk about it more again. Anyways, if I found out my doctor or mayor or whatever was getting face down ass up every weekend, I'd trust them more.
No, I'm just like I don't know. I mean, I know she's in Tennessee, and Tennessee can be more conservative for sure. Not all of Tennessee, but I would imagine a good chunk of Tennessee is is on the conservative side. Um, so, so I can I can understand that it's like, oh, how how dare you talk about it, but it's just like everybody [ __ ] Well, not everybody [ __ ] There are asexual people. There are people who don't [ __ ] but lots of people [ __ ] It's like a function of human biology, you know? It's just a thing. It's a thing we do. Uh, and so it's crazy to think that like adult women can't talk about their own con. Not the CPA doesn't.
Um, anyways, here we are. weren't really making a physical connection. And I think he shares the same concerns because I did not hear from him today.
And I have a feeling that um >> Well, maybe cuz you turned down taking a bath with him.
>> I don't know. I just have a feeling that we're not going to be seeing each other anymore.
But it's okay. It's fine. You win some, you lose some.
>> Also, yeah, maybe maybe it's cuz he saw your video.
But who knows, by the time this video goes up, maybe I'll have heard from him and we'll be living happily ever after and all of that. But anyway, so my Monday night video just talked about um the date with the let me give you something to remember me by guy and how it really wasn't working out >> with him.
At least I didn't think so.
and I ended up privating that video. So, if you missed it, >> can we talk about the useless [ __ ] she's hauling? I mean, it's more of the same.
She She can't She's broke and can't pay for dinner, but she can pay for this [ __ ] from Teimu. You know how it is.
>> I'm sorry. I'm in pajamas. Oh, >> and well, this is what I slept in. And um except I'm wearing this hat that I won from Selena Graves the singer on her whatnot auction.
>> Selena Graves the singer. I ain't never heard of her. You won it from her whatnot auction. She m she must not be too successful of a singer if she if she's selling stuff on on whatnot.
>> And this is my channel. Hey everybody. I was thinking about getting up tomorrow morning and going to this pancake place and getting the birthday pancakes for my birthday.
>> And then I was thinking of trying to get in to get a blowout because I am going out to dinner tomorrow night with that.
>> She She loves to get a blowout from anything but this man.
Wait. Okay. She's going to get a blowout.
>> I was thinking of trying to get in to get a blowout because I am going out to dinner tomorrow night with that CPA that I am kind of >> Let's go.
>> I don't know what we're doing. We're We're dating or I don't know if it's platonic. I'm not sure what's happening, but we're hanging around. I guess I'll just put put it like that.
>> Why don't you just talk to him about it?
Why don't you just have a combo with him about it? Why doesn't anybody want to talk?
>> But he's taking me to a really nice restaurant. And I'm going to wear a dress and I was thinking of trying to get my hair did, but I don't know. We'll see how it goes tomorrow. I might just be like lying in bed until the very last minute. I did wear my pink sweater on the date. Well, I had a date or whatever with the CPA.
>> Um, I forgot what >> as an elder goth. I am very confused by her. The cure shirt face with Monle.
I love how TTS read that out. Gotham Moomu, thanks so much for five months of Prime. Appreciate it.
>> Night. It was, but I wore the pink sweater Pamela got me and he goes, "Oo, I like that sweater." So, that sweater is guy approved. I um you know, we uh I don't know how to describe what's going on with him. We are just uh >> kind of chilling. We've been watching a lot of movies lately, and I mean that uh literally watching a lot of movies together and just sort of chilling out and not rushing things, I guess, is what we're doing. Sorry. Oh, and I'm wearing that E that I got from >> Uhhuh.
>> Pamela. Pam who?
>> Oops. Everything's all tangled up.
>> Who's Pamela?
>> Oh, well, whatever.
>> We would probably know who Pamela was if we weren't just watching um compiled together clips.
Don't look at it. Don't look at it. I wore this t-shirt uh the other night over to the CPA's house to watch a movie and he goes, "What's the cure?" And I went, "Oh, it's a band, man. It's a band."
I did swipe on a few more men on Bumble today.
>> Oh, the fun.
>> We're We're We're back to swiping and hauling AI printed bags. Cool. Cool.
Cool. Wait, I know I'm so late, but who is the sign pick in the bottom of her frame? Um, it's a guy from another another Timu hauling channel, Angry Grandpa or Grumpy Grandpa, something like that. He's he's from Nona's here or something. I don't know. Some some Teeu hauling uh some Teimuh Hauling YouTube channel.
>> I bet I haven't messaged any of them yet. Look at that. That's gorgeous.
>> It's sloth.
>> Now, if you don't see me tomorrow, it just means that hustling to get ready for my date. So, we're going to hurry. I've got a dinner.
>> Oh, she's got the we split check AI merch.
Agism. Not a good look. Aism from who?
Diva from her.
At 6:30 and it is 3:48. My hair and makeup are done. And I got to put a little bit brighter lipstick.
>> Is she Is she going to Is she going to wear the We split check shirt on her day.
>> On. And um that's about all I'm going to do. I've got a dress. I've just got to throw on a dress and some nails and get there. I don't have any money for the ballet, which is stressing me out a little bit. I hope he does.
Diva.
Diva, Div.A, had you ha have you have you considered not doing all of this? This had you considered not doing this haul so that you could pay for the valet at the fancy restaurant.
Listen, I'm I'm I I don't want people to think I'm pocket watching anybody. Um cuz Aaron is a grown woman who can spend her money however she wants. But it is crazy to sit here and listen to her talk about how how broke she is and how she doesn't want to pay for these dinners and things like that because she's so broke. And it's just like we're sitting here watching her consistently just haul junk that we never see her use.
It's just it's just crazy. The the juxiposition is just wild. I don't know what kind of a savvy dator he is if he brings cash for both cars for the valet parking because I'm meeting him there.
And um we are going to my favorite restaurant which is exciting. I don't know what our dinner reservations are for 6:30.
So, oh I think Jane said that the the last few videos are her opening up like birthday gifts that viewers sent in. By the way, I think that's why that was like wrapping paper.
>> There's a lot of time after that. I don't know if we're going over to his place to watch a move to watch a movie.
>> So So maybe the things she's currently hauling are not things she spent money on, by the way. So maybe we can give her some some leeway on this. Um maybe we can give her some leeway on this. But we did just watch her haul all kinds of other stupid crap. So, my my point still stands >> or whatever we're going to do afterward.
Oh, I'm wearing my We split check t-shirt, which is available in my merch store. If you're a single lady and you're dating a lot of weirdos, you might like this. And if you are new, um, okay, but wait, she's so fast to get upset about his physical limitations, but does he, Mr. CPA, know about her money troubles? Like, have they talked about that? because that is also a very important component in a healthy relationship. I'm sure they have it.
I'm sure they have it.
This is an inside joke between me and my subscribers among me and my subscribers.
And it references a Russian guy that I went out on a date with and just got some French fries and he's he wanted me to go back to his place afterward. I said no. I should have said yes. And um he when I said no, he got all pouty and he said, "We split check." So we split our little stupid check with French fries and a couple of glasses of wine on it. Could have been worse. Thank Thankfully we didn't eat like a full expensive meal.
>> Diva Diva will stay so hung up. She will stay so hung up on that check.
>> And yeah, I'm kind of old school. I know this is a debate that's constantly in my comments, but if it's a first date and the man asks me out, "Yeah, I think he should pay this birthday dinner. I sure hope this guy's paying." Okay. I was thinking today that >> she's she is so thirsty for other people to pay for [ __ ] so she can just keep wasting her money on Teeu nonsense. CPA that I'm kind of I don't know what we're doing has never complimented me at all except the other night he said you have really glowy skin. So he did say that but no matter how much I try to dress up >> he's never complimented you at all. You are a liar. You literally just said he previously told you you looked good in a pink sweater. You previously also said that he called you funny and brilliant.
What do you mean?
What do you mean, Aaron?
Or whatever. Like, I should try to do a smokey eye tonight, but I'm not that talented, you guys. But no matter how much I try, like he never says anything like you look nice or you're beautiful or you're pretty or you're >> She's so irritated.
>> Attractive. Women need that sometimes.
Or at least I do.
>> Cat mom, >> what is my love language? Word. Maybe it's words of affirmation. I always thought it was physical touch.
Um if if you go by that whole love languages thing.
Um, I always took myself to be a physical touch kind of love language.
>> I think you are physical touch too because you're worried he can't get it up and you think it that means you're ugly and it doesn't.
>> I'm a words of affirmation. Maybe all of them are my love languages. Let's speak all the love languages. And if you don't know what love languages are, just Google love languages. I think there are five. One of them is giving gifts. I love to give people gifts.
I get shy when I receive gifts. Um, I don't know. But yeah, hopefully I'll have fun tonight with uh CPA man and a lot of you guys. I haven't watched his video. ZACHARY MICHAEL >> ME.
Is this play about us?
>> Look, I don't have a problem with Zachary Michael also or whatever. I >> Zachary Michael also or whatever.
I don't have a problem with Zachary Michael also or whatever. Same. Me either.
Me either.
>> Did get upset when he dug up all that old awful drama about me. I could have lived without that. And that was really upsetting.
>> Really upsetting. And but someone said he made a video about me and the CPA and put the CPA's picture in the thumbnail.
And I was like, "No way." Cuz how did he find that? And I GOT >> WAIT, do you want to see the thumbnail in question?
Do you want to see the thumbnail in this is the This is the thumbnail in question.
I I typed into Google images. We we >> I think it was Chris who said that your fourth channel name could be Zachary Michael also. Whatever.
>> There's not going to be a fourth a fourth uh a fourth channel, but thank you Jamie for the bits. That's funny. Um no, I literally went to images.google.com.
She couldn't tell. It's not even AI, Diva. It's not even AI. It's a It's a stock photo.
It is Adobe stock photo. I went I searched I went to Google images and I searched 62y old man.
I searched 62 year old man in Google images and and then I just I picked a man.
There were there were many to choose from.
There were many to choose from. Images.
Watch. 62year-old man.
Um, yeah. 60 62 year old man.
And I just scrolled and wouldn't you see? Oh, it's Getty Images. There he is.
There he is.
And I just I just copy and pasted it in and removed the background in Photoshop.
And there you go. First your money, then your clothes.
He's like a businessman in the community and all of this. But then I read comments more on my own. I didn't go over to his page and someone said that was a stock photo of an older man. So, no, I don't think that that Here, I'm just going to brace myself right now. I try not to look. I I don't I don't want to like I don't have a problem with Zachary Michael, but I don't I don't necessarily want to watch >> and that's fine videos.
>> That's okay. That's okay.
>> Even though they do make me They used to make me laugh, but now I'm just scared of them.
>> Don't Don't be scared. But also, I respect you having that boundary. You don't have to watch any any of the videos I make about you. That is a-ok.
Okay.
>> Um, but I think that he just used a stock picture of an old guy.
>> Yeah, that's not that's not the um that is not the guy that I'm dating.
>> That is so funny.
That is so That is so funny.
So, whatever.
Okay. So, he makes me laugh.
Uh, don't get too mad at him. He got a lot. Don't get too mad at him. But no, don't panic. That is >> Don't get too mad at me, divas.
Don't get too mad at me.
>> Not the man that I'm dating. It's just a picture of some older dude. Okay, everybody. That's all I have to say. I love and appreciate you guys so much.
Thank you. Thank you for watching. And let me give you something to remember me about.
I will see you tomorrow. I don't know.
Maybe if all my teamu orders shows up tomorrow or something. I will see you soon. And until then, I hope you're having a great morning, afternoon, evening, whatever it is when you're watching this. And now I say, how do I stop? And thank you so much to all of you for the birthday wishes. Thank you so much.
>> And now I say, how do I stop this thing?
She's so funny.
She's so funny.
That's so funny. So funny. Well, shout out again to Jane for compiling those clips. I really appreciate it. Um I still can't get over the fetuccini comment. No, I I made a mental note of how far along in the VOD we were and I'm gonna send that to to Malard for a few future edits cuz that slayed me.
That slayed me. That really that really took me the [ __ ] out.
Anyways, um YouTubies, thanks so much for hanging out with me. Bye, YouTubies.
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