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[00:00:00]who raised your hand having dated a narcissist.

[00:00:03]>> So, can we redefine what a narcissist is just because I feel like it gets thrown around so much. Let's clear it up.

[00:00:08]>> Well, this is what we're about to do.

[00:00:10]All right. So, is that true?

[00:00:12]>> Narcissist is not just a bad man.

[00:00:14]>> Five people have dated a narcissist.

[00:00:17]Yes.

[00:00:17]>> I feel like there's a lot.

[00:00:19]>> Yeah.

[00:00:20]>> So, tell me about what were what were the narcissistic traits? What made him a narcissist? Starting with you.

[00:00:26]>> Cheating. Lying.

[00:00:29]Can I tell like a quick little story?

[00:00:32]Y'all can get like a little Okay. Five days after my son died, he he was cheating on me.

[00:00:38]>> But the girl that knew that like knew about me and him.

[00:00:41]>> Oh, wow.

[00:00:41]>> They have been messing around with each other for a long time.

[00:00:45]>> And I had found out that he cheated on me that night and I like I freaked out.

[00:00:50]>> Like crying, screaming.

[00:00:52]>> Yeah. What was he trying to do? Get him and the new girl whacked like oh my god.

[00:00:55]>> Been holding you after crying after losing your baby? me up at it was his birthday, too. He had picked me up at like 3:00 a.m. after he told me that he was only going to be out for 2 hours with friends. He sent a picture saying he was with his homeboy at his home boy's house. It wasn't his homeboy's house. I automatically like recognized the girl's house.

[00:01:16]>> It was her apartment. And he lied. And our son wasn't even dead a whole week.

[00:01:22]So, >> how old was the son?

[00:01:24]>> He was three months.

[00:01:25]>> Sorry to hear about that. All right. And next, >> sorry about your baby. It's okay.

[00:01:28]>> Cheating and lying mainly.

[00:01:31]>> Cheating and lying.

[00:01:32]>> Yeah.

[00:01:32]>> Okay.

[00:01:33]>> Um I would say that he just had no empathy and he was very like manipulative and like like took me down like it it he like broke me all the way down and I had to like build myself up.

[00:01:45]So >> how did he break you down in what sense?

[00:01:49]>> Um like literally all of the ways.

[00:01:53]>> Like what what were some key ways? Like I mean he was like emotionally like verbally abusive, emotionally abusive.

[00:02:02]Um he was very like controlling. He was I'm sure he cheated on me. And and it's not even just me. Like I heard that like multiple girls would reach out to me after and be like, "Oh yeah, I was in a relationship. Like the whole relationship was like chaotic. I felt out of control." And then someone would be like, "Oh yeah, I dated him a couple years before." And same thing. So it's like a pattern. and he like goes and seeks out these women that like are successful and like like in a good headsp space and then he just like breaks them down and then leaves them and then moves on and does the next thing. So yeah, I think that's sociopathic and narcissist >> just some of the traits and qualities that you're saying are narcissistic.

[00:02:43]>> Um I have my own mental issues. So, this is hard to discern, but from what I've noticed, what I've read in psycho in psychology books, uh just grandiose uh beliefs about themselves, uh unrealistic expectations in relationships with others, but then never holding themselves accountable for those same or even similar expectations when others set boundaries with them. Uh like with a narcissist, you set a boundary, it doesn't exist. Um so, >> so they feel like they need to get past you in the class.

[00:03:12]>> Yes. So, they'll love bomb you. This is different. Okay.

[00:03:14]>> Yeah, it's clock it. It's literally clock it. That's what the like >> I don't know what's going on with kids these days, but yeah, there you go. But anyway, uh grandiose expectations and then not holding themselves accountable.

[00:03:25]>> So, we saw a boundary had to go through the boundary.

[00:03:27]>> Boundary. Yeah. So, if you set a boundary with a narcissist, they're going to be like, "Well, why don't you love me anymore? Why don't you want to do that for me? Like, you never you always used to do that for me. Why are you different now?" Just manipulation.

[00:03:39]manipulation tactics, love bombing, just just knowing how to talk and knowing how to dig into somebody and what to say and how to how to say it. Basically, >> they're very good at what they hear.

[00:03:49]>> They're very good.

[00:03:50]>> Uh cheating, manipulative, you know, uh if you know, I said something that he didn't like, it would he would start attacking every insecurity that I had.

[00:04:02]>> All right. So now raise your hand if you if the person that you're describing was clinically diagnosed by a professional to be a narcissist.

[00:04:12]Right? So this is the thing. This narcissism term is thrown around a lot these days. And actually I don't think any of you have ever actually dated a narcissist.

[00:04:19]>> So there's there's a big difference between narcissistic traits and a narcissist and an abuser. Like those are all very different things. I feel like personally you can have narcissistic traits and not be a textbook narcissist.

[00:04:32]>> Yeah. But this is something that women are just constantly throwing around these days. Oh, I've dated a narcissist.

[00:04:36]I've dated a narcissist. But you probably actually haven't dated a narcissist. He was just had some >> I'm a sociopath, so I don't get to decide if someone else is really a narcissist or not. That's not up to >> Are you really a sociopath? Have you been Have you been diagnosed as a sociopath?

[00:04:51]um diagnosed with >> like uh like psychopathic tendencies >> to where like you reach to you reach a certain point where you're like let's say you're in a manic episode or a manic phase uh and you reach a certain point where you have no regard for yourself or others at that point. And that's what they say psychopathic tendencies. That's >> But you said sociopathic.

[00:05:15]>> Oh, excuse me. That's different. You're right. You caught me there. I I I guess I couldn't really pinpoint or determine the difference.

[00:05:21]>> Yeah. Bullshitting tendencies is what you've got.

[00:05:23]>> I I do have a question for you though.

[00:05:25]Like do you think that like the way like that man groomed you and like the way you were the experiences that you went through? Do you think that's what made you a psychopath?

[00:05:35]>> No. Absolutely not. Nope. Nope.

[00:05:38]>> You were born a psychopath since I was a kid.

[00:05:40]>> I don't think she's a psychopath or a sociopath or ever actually dated a narcissist because you've got five kids.

[00:05:46]You're a mother. You seem like you love your kids. You've got you've got a good relationship with your kids. I'm assuming you care when they when they hurt themselves and everything. So, you can feel emotion and empathy for other people.

[00:05:55]>> Yeah. You're not a sociopath.

[00:05:56]>> Okay. So, lack of empathy is what determines a sociopath or a psychopath.

[00:06:00]Then >> a sociopath is some it's such a it's such a tiny tiny little substrata of the population of people who actually have like a mental defect where they cannot feel empathy for another person. That's a sociopath. Like if if a serial killer is probably a sociopath because they will be murdering someone. Do you ever look at those documentaries like you guys like you got a psychology degree which basically most girls who get a psychology degree just means they want to bang a serial killer like >> no I want to be a therapist ironically you'll be at the courtroom keep throwing your bra at the serial killer >> shopping for a man >> no I want to be a therapist >> who didn't get a life sentence who who got parole in a couple years let me get your info I'll write you >> you want to be pen pals >> I'm just I'm just messing around. You probably don't want to bang a serial killer, but >> chicks who like get in really into psychology like this, like >> do you know who Kyle Yung is?

[00:06:50]>> Who?

[00:06:51]>> Kyle Yung.

[00:06:52]>> Carl Young. Like the >> I'm asking her if she knows who Kyle Young is. Do you know who Carl Young is?

[00:06:57]>> No. You'd have to like explain some of the things he did.

[00:06:59]>> Have you ever heard Jean Pier?

[00:07:03]>> Do you know who Sigman Freud is?

[00:07:05]>> Yeah.

[00:07:05]>> Okay, good.

[00:07:06]>> Okay. Okay. Okay. I got you.

[00:07:07]>> Right. cuz these are like the most famous and I always like to ask these chicks who get these psychology degrees if they know who the most famous psychologists are. Okay.

[00:07:14]>> She got a psychology degree. She doesn't know who Carl Young is.

[00:07:17]>> Yeah.

[00:07:18]>> I mean it was it's been a long time.

[00:07:21]>> But this is the thing. Psych psychology um it kind of all ties in together because the whole narcissist thing. Oh, they're a narcissist. I'm a sociopath.

[00:07:29]I'm I'm a psychopath. Everyone's these days apparently.

[00:07:32]Everyone's got five different retardations and it's just not true.

[00:07:35]Everything's overdiagnosed because psychology is actually not about learning about psychology these days.

[00:07:40]The whole psychological industry is essentially just indoctrinating people into trying to weaponize medicine.

[00:07:46]>> Yeah. into leftwing um ideologies like it's just an indoctrination factory and you've gone through this whole psychology degree.

[00:07:53]>> Well, to be fair, I went to the University of Wyoming. So, >> is that like a good good university, bad university?

[00:08:00]I mean my where I went to school had like 30,000 people in the whole town. So >> 30,000 people in the town.

[00:08:07]>> Yeah. Like in like students and everyone else. So >> So what like Hillbilly teachers and stuff we're talking >> I mean obviously they didn't make an impact on me cuz I don't remember So >> what what do you remember about it? Like what are some of the interesting case studies that you did?

[00:08:23]>> Um I mean honestly like I don't remember a lot. I do remember and when I took in a class death and dying, they said that you should marry someone two years if you're a woman, you should marry someone two years younger than you because men die 2 years sooner than women. So you should marry someone two years younger if you want to die at the same time as them. That's literally >> they said that to you.

[00:08:44]>> That's so whack. I can't believe that like a school told you that. Like like it's real information.

[00:08:50]>> And that's what you took with your psychology.

[00:08:52]>> Yeah. Wow.