In relationships, when one person shows strong emotional attachment but avoids commitment, it often stems from internal fears, self-sabotage, and insecurity rather than lack of love; the person may genuinely want to commit but struggles with vulnerability and is afraid of the unknown, requiring patience and understanding from the other party.
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Added:All right, hello, hello. Welcome to Heal and Ascend Tarot. So, I hope everyone is doing well. Today is going to be your general love reading. However, before we jump in, I do have a special promotion, which is half off one of your favorite readings, so the emergency low to no contact reading. That's for those of you who are in either no contact or very little contact with your person. So, that is half off. The coupon is already applied. Uh so, you just click on go click on the link down below to my website and you can just book. There's no coupon code needed. The discount is already applied. Um in addition, while I have you guys here, I do have a new service, which I think you guys will highly like, especially if you liked my channeled love letter. I now have what is called a channeled custom playlist.
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But, let's jump into today's reading.
So, let's see what is going on with you and the person ON YOUR MIND.
LET'S SEE.
OKAY. OH, OKAY.
OKAY. All right. So, let's zoom in a bit. Okay. So, what I'm getting from your person right off the bat, they could be a Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio, but I wouldn't get too caught up in the signs. It could just be the energy that they're embodying right now.
It could be like embodying this water energy.
But I feel like this person has a lot of love for you, okay? So, this person could very well be in love with you, but they might not want to commit, okay?
They might have like struggles when it comes to committing. Maybe they love you, but they they don't want you like make this serious, or they could love you, but they're afraid of moving in with you. I'm getting that this person has a lot of feelings for you, but they tend to make you wait a lot.
Okay?
So, let's see what's going on here.
Sorry, we're not taking that. All right, let's see what is going on here.
Yeah, look at that. Commitment. We got marriage, promises, and fidelity.
So, the fact that we have this with the four of wands in reverse would tell me that this idea of like marriage, commitment, fidelity is significant in this connection. And I think that this person hasn't been able to give that to you. I definitely don't feel like this is the situation where it's like you're married or you're in a committed relationship.
That's not what this feels like. It feels like this person has thought about it, but they struggle with it. And I feel like this person keeps prolonging it or like stalling the inevitable with you. So, let's see why.
I think they do want this. Like, I do actually feel like this person really does want to some sort of commit with you.
Um But, I feel like this person might struggle with the idea of commitment.
Well, let's see though.
Yeah, look at this. You make them very happy, guys. You make this person very happy.
Okay? So, they have thought about commitment, they have thought about kids, they have thought about marriage, whatever it may be, because you do make them happy, but I feel like this person it's almost like they keep stalling.
Like the Seven of Pentacles is telling me that like if they can prolong this as long as they can, they're going to. I feel like if you were to give them some sort of ultimatum or say like you need to make up your mind, they probably would just make up their mind, but if they feel like they have the time, then I feel like they're going to take the time.
Okay, if that makes sense.
So, let's see.
Okay.
What is coming through for this person on your mind?
I am getting good vibes though. I really I really am. Okay, let's see.
ALL RIGHT, WE'VE GOT KEYS ON A RING, many options, decision, unconventional, string along, one-night stand.
Okay, what's up? That card always comes out in this these decks. We have not enough.
Frustrated in relationship, lack of confidence, self-sabotage, fear, ego issues, jealousy.
Okay, so this is starting to make sense.
So, for some of you guys, you've been questioning this person's behavior because you're thinking to yourself, I know that we have this like deep, strong connection with that King of Cups, right? Like you guys can even feel deep down that this person loves you, but you always question, "Well, why are they not taking it to the next level? Why are they not committing?"
Like the reason why is because I feel like this person is struggling with self-sabotage. They're lacking in confidence. This is the type of person who maybe has always been used to like just having a one-night stand. Maybe they haven't been used to having a full-blown commitment or they haven't been used to having a um you know, well, just a committed relationship in general in general.
Um you could be the first person that this this you could be the first person that they want to commit to, but they're struggling because maybe they've never done that.
Okay, let's see.
Yeah, Seven of Pentacles is coming out again. This person knows that you're starting to get impatient. Like they're aware that they can't keep delaying this, right?
Like you're going to get fed up if they keep trying to prolong this situation.
They're really insecure, guys.
Oh my gosh.
Oh my gosh.
Are you serious?
Five of Pentacles at the bottom of the deck. Okay.
Ooh. Okay, so we do have Capricorn energy here. We got the Devil in reverse. We also have the Ace of Cups in reverse. So, like I said, this person's very insecure. They lack self-love. Um they have a lot of toxic energy, okay?
So, deep down I feel like this person like they have literally thought, "You're the first person that I want to commit to."
That's the energy that I'm getting. Like I feel like they never really felt this way. I feel like this person is used to kind of like flings, are used to like, "Okay, let's just hook up and then I'll never call you again." But there's something about you where they feel like they want to commit to you, but then it's also scaring them because they're not used to this. They're not used to feeling that energy. So, I feel like this person is actually it's almost activating a lot of their insecurities, their self-doubt. Um they're sort of lacking self-love here as well.
Okay, let's see.
How do they feel about you right now? I know we have the happy card here, but I want to see like how they're feeling about you in this very moment.
Safe. They're trying to They're Yeah, they're keeping themselves safe right now. I feel like they're not really wanting to be vulnerable. They're more comfortable like protecting themselves.
What is your energy towards this person?
Okay, what is your energy towards this person?
Oh, you guys are feeling very emotionally attached to this person.
Okay, so you guys are very emotionally invested into this person, okay? They're So, this is the type of person who you can feel deep down that there's a connection, but you're like, why are they not committing? Why are they not giving me more of themselves? So, now you're seeing why.
Okay, so what does spirit have to say about this?
Oh, wow. Okay.
All right, so let's see. What does spirit have to say about this connection?
What does spirit have to say about this connection?
Conflict. It says here, clashing differences and incompatibility.
So, spirit is acknowledging here that the two of you at some point may clash.
Maybe there is some differences. Maybe there is some in sort of incompatibility. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but it is stating here that maybe the two of you might not always be on the same page.
We also have boat. It says, receiving what you need, progression, arriving, moving on, closure issues.
Okay, so what does this person want with you?
What does this person want with you?
Oh my gosh, the devil reversed is coming out again. Look at this.
This came out earlier. This is wild.
Look at this. We got strong Capricorn energy.
Devil is all about obsession, but the fact that it's in reverse would tell me that this person is trying to stop feeling obsessed with you. Like, I feel like they're really trying to like to release this attachment that they have to you at this point in time. Let's clarify it. Why is the devil in reverse?
Yeah, I feel like this person is like aware that they have this sort of obsessive thinking about you and they're Like in their mind they're playing out this like super happy future and they're trying to stop obsessing about you mentally, okay? Devil reversed. Right?
So guys, that's what I have for you today. So I truly hope that this reading was helpful and can support you on your journeys, okay? If you are interested in booking a personal reading, I do have half off my emergency low to no contact reading as well as I do have a new service called the channeled custom playlist. It is eight songs channeled based on your person's current feelings towards you.
So if you want more info on that guys, the link as always will be down below.
And I'm sending you love and light.
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