Virgins Try "Letting Loose" | Virgin Island

[00:00:00]So, today we're going to go much deeper into touch and work on disinhibition.

[00:00:05]And that means letting out a little bit more of your wildness, a little bit more of your inner animal.

[00:00:10]>> Oh, god.

[00:00:12]>> We are wired for sex, right? We're wired to go after it. And yet society says, "Shame, shame, shame." And we you know, and we shut down. And the animal game helps people feel the passion and desire in their body.

[00:00:26]So, I know, Tom, that you've taken some acting classes. So, I'm wondering if you would be willing to demo with me.

[00:00:33]>> Yeah, sure.

[00:00:37]>> So, let's get on our hands and knees. I want you to just to start to feel your senses.

[00:00:43]We close our eyes and we start to feel this animal inside of us and we let [music] that animal go after the other person. Actually letting it move, letting it out in our body.

[00:00:59]>> [music] >> Tom may be finding his wild side.

[00:01:16]But for the rest of the group, it's too much to bear.

[00:01:31]>> [sighs] [laughter] >> That was so fun.

[00:01:45]>> That was a lot of fun for me there.

[00:01:47]>> [laughter] >> I enjoyed that.

[00:01:51]>> I felt like a pervert.

[00:01:52]>> [laughter] >> I was very jungle book and I I feeling very Downton Abbey.

[00:01:58]And I was like, it's lovely like they're really enjoying it, but all >> The experts believe Dave's ready to start the island's most advanced treatment, [music] surrogate partner therapy.

[00:02:08]>> How are you feeling?

[00:02:10]>> Good.

[00:02:10]>> Yeah.

[00:02:11]>> Yeah.

[00:02:11]>> Okay.

[00:02:14]>> It was really nice.

[00:02:16]Felt natural and enjoyable. Um It give me a massive confidence boost.

[00:02:23]>> Meanwhile, I'd like to just um go into an experience of connecting with your body. Yeah, just do that.

[00:02:31]>> Okay, I'll try that.

[00:02:32]>> Yeah.

[00:02:33]>> Jason's lessons on how to hug a moving up a step.

[00:02:37]>> You can touch me in a way that feels good to you.

[00:02:40]>> It's amazing.

[00:02:41]>> [laughter] >> What do you notice?

[00:02:44]>> Yeah, a bone.

[00:02:46]>> [laughter] >> Is it enjoyable?

[00:02:49]>> This is.

[00:02:50]>> [laughter] >> Now, the experts want to build Jason's confidence. And Joy has a plan to help him with his horror of hugging.

[00:03:01]Hello again.

[00:03:02]>> Hey.

[00:03:03]>> Come on in.

[00:03:04]>> Thank you.

[00:03:05]>> And have a seat.

[00:03:06]>> Oh, excellent.

[00:03:10]>> Oh, what is it that happens when you're in a hug? What do you >> goes weird. It's like alien to me. When I see people hugging, it just freaks me out.

[00:03:19]>> [laughter] >> I don't know why.

[00:03:21]>> So, we want to work towards a hug that feels really good.

[00:03:24]>> Yeah.

[00:03:26]>> So, let's let's stand here cuz it's a little more even.

[00:03:30]And I'm going to touch your arm first.

[00:03:32]>> Okay.

[00:03:33]>> You want it?

[00:03:34]>> Yes, go ahead.

[00:03:39]>> And you feel me.

[00:03:40]And you can put your >> [music] >> hand on my arm >> Yeah.

[00:03:43]>> if you'd like.

[00:03:45]>> Yeah.

[00:03:49]I feel sick. No, no, no, no, in a way. I feel like in a good way. Like pretty slang.

[00:03:53]>> Oh, slang. Oh, yeah.

[00:03:53]>> [laughter] >> Yeah.

[00:03:55]>> As usual, Jason tries to mask his [music] awkwardness with humor.

[00:03:59]>> I'm quite robotic, I I feel like.

[00:04:01]>> But you're moving your hands a lot.

[00:04:03]>> At first, >> [music] >> I just want you to receive.

[00:04:06]>> Okay.

[00:04:06]>> So I can get a sense of what it feels like to be in this moment.

[00:04:10]>> Mhm.

[00:04:11]>> But Joy perseveres.

[00:04:13]>> Yeah.

[00:04:14]>> [snorts] >> It's really nice.

[00:04:16]>> [laughter] >> Before escalating intimacy.

[00:04:20]>> Can I come even closer?

[00:04:22]>> If you want to.

[00:04:23]>> Yeah.

[00:04:23]>> Yeah.

[00:04:24]Like like that.

[00:04:26]>> Yeah, you can move like that. We're just staying connected with your breath.

[00:04:30]>> Yeah.

[00:04:31]>> So you don't lose that sense [music] of the moment.

[00:04:41]Yeah.

[00:04:42]Can I come even closer still?

[00:04:44]>> Okay. Can I come any closer? Yeah.

[00:04:48]Okay.

[00:04:50]>> Can I touch your neck?

[00:04:51]>> Yeah.

[00:04:56]>> [music and bell] >> Feels good.

[00:05:06]Would you like to do a hug?

[00:05:09]>> Why not? Let's do it. Yeah.

[00:05:10]>> Yeah, let's do it.

[00:05:20]How was this?

[00:05:22]>> Yeah. Awesome.

[00:05:23]>> Yeah.

[00:05:24]Cool. Yeah.

[00:05:32]>> Thank you.

[00:05:33]See you.

[00:05:36]Woah.

[00:05:40]>> [music] >> Woo!