Forgiveness does not instantly rebuild trust.

Added: 2026-05-25

[00:00:00]Here's what I know. I've been doing this a long time with people.

[00:00:04]Forgiveness does not instantly rebuild [music] trust.

[00:00:10]Those are two different things.

[00:00:12]Trust may take time.

[00:00:15]Wisdom may require some boundaries.

[00:00:17]Forgiveness means I refuse to keep feeding the bitterness.

[00:00:22]I'm not going to keep it alive. We're going to have to work on our trust, but I will not keep [music] this wound alive. Every time it heals, I'm not going to rip it back open just so I prove to you that what you did hurt me.

[00:00:34]I'm not going [music] to do that. I will let it heal.

[00:00:39]I will.

[00:00:39]>> [music] >> You don't have to.

[00:00:41]My responsibility. I have agency for my own healing. I have agency for my own responsibility. That's [music] not yours.

[00:00:51]That's mine.

[00:00:52]So, I'll do that and we can work on learning to trust again.