MEN’S OBJECTIFICATION OF WOMEN IS LEADING TO THEM DOING HEINOUS THINGS 2 THEIR WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS

Added: 2026-05-05

[00:00:00]62 million website visits. A site with group chats of men that are encouraging one another on how to drug and sexually assault their wives and how to get a [ __ ] way with it.

[00:00:14]>> There are some women out there that seem to think that being objectified as long as it's their own choice for fun or especially if they're getting paid for it is perfectly fine.

[00:00:27]While ago, I said on this app that we wouldn't be surprised about the Epstein files if we were looking for the Epstein files that exist inside our relationships. Cuz the whole system is designed to groom people, specifically women, to be objects, objects to be used at the dispense of men.

[00:00:41]>> Men love to use that. I know men men know that they can't, but they use that though against um against women to manipulate women to try to keep women in the fold and keep women underneath their um their thumb. And you know what this man did?

[00:00:57]>> I need a drink of water. He gas lit me to my face.

[00:01:01]>> Remember I had ran a prompt about a month, maybe a month and a half ago.

[00:01:05]It's up on my Patreon. If you guys want to um check it out, you can sign up for the Patreon. The replay is on the Patreon. But anyways, um the the title of it was The Average Man is Jeffrey Epstein.

[00:01:20]The way that men came in there and got so mad and crashed out about that, one would one could conceivably come to the conclusion that maybe just maybe the average man isn't Jeffrey Epste because those men were fighting so ardently to prove that the average man wasn't Jeffrey Epstein.

[00:01:43]you might come to the conclusion like, "Okay, they're getting really they're really getting this upset because the average man isn't like this and they're really just trying to let everybody know the average man isn't like this." But I know better than that.

[00:01:57]I know better than that. I I know that if you lower the age of consent that grown men will be sleeping with little bitty, you know, more grown men will be sleeping with, you know, younger people.

[00:02:11]I know that if you if we rolled the clocks back to before rape was even a thing because it wasn't illegal.

[00:02:21]It wasn't a thing not that long ago about 40 50 60 years ago. It wasn't it wasn't even a thing.

[00:02:28]Um that men would be raping women like crazy like like even more so, right?

[00:02:39]um marital rape wasn't a thing until 1994.

[00:02:43]So it was like certain you know like you know like a little bit of raping was okay till 1994 according to the US government but you know finally finally you know they came up with some laws to protect women and they passed some laws to protect women in the mid1 1990s we got rid of you know finally right but anyways um when I say when I said that the average man was Jeffrey Epste I was saying that the average man has the propensity to commit heinous acts of violence against I truly believe that.

[00:03:15]And when I say that, when I when I said that and and when people agreed, this is exactly what we were talking about. 62 million website visits. A site with group chats of men that are encouraging one another on how to drug and sexually assault their wives and how to get a [ __ ] way with it. Not just some incel in a basement. This is a audience that rivals NPR that is just below what NBC News takes in on website visits monthly. That many men are circling these sites. This is not a one-off. This is not just oh some bad men. This is a cultural problem and it has been. Here's an idea. Maybe we listen to women. Listen to women. Got entire corners of the internet where empathy is seen as a weakness. Women are treated and talked to like objects.

[00:04:13]Getting away with it is seen as a skill and you act getting away with it is seen as a skill and you act surprised and shocked when real world violence follows. This is what happens over the last decade of this manosphere where there's misogyny or just jokes. It's just locker room talk. No big deal.

[00:04:32]Those same people cry about what pronouns to use. Get [ __ ] real. I'll tell you one thing. I don't think the bear of the woods has online rapemmies.

[00:04:42]Maybe that's why women choose the bear.

[00:04:44]Just a thought.

[00:04:45]>> The objectification of women is rampant and it leads to to this like it starts off as like you know looking at ass and titties let's say. It starts off as it almost seems innocent, you know, like it seems natural to a lot of men like, "Oh man, damn, she look good." But then it quickly morphs into something more where women are just seen as objects. And once women are seen as objects, they're completely dehumanized and men feel like they can and should do whatever they want to them.

[00:05:24]That's that. And that's why when I I listen to this type of rhetoric, I get very it's I mean it's beyond annoying. Like I get I get triggered and I know women get triggered by this type of [ __ ] all the time too. The Queen Pikney here, she you know she puts it in a in a really I mean it's a good way. Not to say it's productive, but she she perfectly she says it exactly like the way that these men want to say it, right? But of course, it took a woman to say it, which I still think is hilarious, even though she's a [ __ ] piggy. It still took a woman to say it better than the men could say it. So I have a question and it specifically has to do with the objectification of women because I have seen a lot of very contradictory posts about that on social media as well as heard a lot of conflicting opinions on that subject because it's my understanding that most women don't want to be objectified by anyone especially not by men. They want to be seen as people, individuals with personalities, not as a body or a face and everything that that would have to offer. Yet, there are some women out there that seem to think that being objectified as long as it's their own choice for fun or especially if they're getting paid for it is perfectly fine.

[00:06:50]>> Because it is because it because it is. I mean, yeah. Like, I like when my wife treats me like an object. Not like all the time, cuz she doesn't do it all the time, but I like when my wife objectifies me.

[00:07:10]When my wife does it, I like it. When I do it, she likes it. She tells me, she wants me to. Like, that's, you know, that's consent. When it's consensual, there's nothing wrong with it. When it's consensual, it's not a problem. I don't know why we're acting like that's such a [ __ ] like mind-boggling mystery. Like, oh man. So, you mean to tell me if you're okay with it, then it's cool, but if you're not okay with it, then it's not cool for us to do it.

[00:07:39]Like, yeah, that's exactly what I'm saying. That's literally what I'm saying.

[00:07:43]>> Fine. And some even consider it to be empowering to be seen as nothing more than just a pretty face or an attractive body. So which one is it? Is it degradation or is it empowering? Only so long as a person is getting paid for it >> or if a person is consenting to it whether they're getting paid for it or not. Um there are people, men and women alike, that like to get slapped and spat on and peed on and all. They like degradate. They have like a kink, a degradation kink. There are people that like that. I'm not saying that people who objectify themselves have a degradation kink. I'm just saying like there are people who like to be degraded. That is their thing. But when it's consensual in, you know, under their own terms, they're okay with it. Safe words, if you will, would be um applied to this situation. That makes sense. I don't have any [ __ ] problem with that. I'm not here to tell those women, "Oh, you crazy. You're you're a part of the problem." They're not. They're not. When I told y'all that Epstein was the average man, I meant it. And it's funny because this dude is basically saying the same thing. And this is the difference between women consenting and women not consenting at this whole scenario. A while ago, I said on this app that we wouldn't be surprised about the Epstein files if we were looking for the Epstein files that exist inside our relationships. is the whole system is designed to groom people, specifically women, to be objects, objects to be used at the dispense of men. I even challenge people to think of any area that was completely safe for women. Never gotten an answer, by the way. As CNN releases their reporting on websites that host content of men literally raping their own wives, drugging them, teaching other men how to do it, and then paying them for the videos. And these are men that have been in uh committed relationships.

[00:09:38]their wives. One guy was like 20 years and he just confessed after church one day that he had been like crushing up his kids sleep meds, putting them in her tea at night and raping her for years.

[00:09:53]So, did she choose wrong?

[00:09:57]What were the signs that he was crushing up? They they what what red flags were there um for her for that woman to see prior to, you know, him confessing to this that he was a type of man that would crush up sleeping pills and drug his and drug her and then rape her in her sleep.

[00:10:18]Like this is this is a prime example of the whole choose better [ __ ] being stupid as [ __ ] 20 [ __ ] years, man. I be trying to tell men so many times that men will be I won't say perfectly fine because nobody's perfect but men won't be raging um you know like sociopaths year 1 7 13 even but year 15 now they're who knows they fell down some [ __ ] they fell into one of these chat rooms I don't know if I don't know if it was always there and they were masking it who [ __ ] knows but but the women don't see the [ __ ] coming because it was never anything to see.

[00:11:02]This [ __ ] is so scary. This [ __ ] is so scary. And and when when this type of stuff happens and then men start to figure out a way to blame women, you basically push women further and further away from me. For the people that care about that stuff, like I genuinely don't give a [ __ ] about men and women being together in relationship. If you want to be with a If you're a man and you want to be with a woman, good luck. If you're a woman that want want to be with a man, why would you ever? But also, good luck. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't care though either way. I don't care either way, right? I told um I get it. You know, whatever. We're compelled to do it. We're pressured to do it by society.

[00:11:40]So, this is not me trying to bring people together. I just want to point out the fact that every single time men get up, men are men's worst enemies when it comes to this because men will blame a woman in a [ __ ] heartbeat for some [ __ ] that men are doing. It's really wild.

[00:11:54]>> You don't need to be rich. You don't need to be an elite to be an Epstein.

[00:11:57]And the reason we need to talk about it is because these behaviors do not happen in a vacuum. This is how men are socialized under >> you don't need to be an elite to be Epstein. And that's what I was saying in my life when I said that the average man was Jeffrey Epstein.

[00:12:11]>> The system of domination and control that we live under called the patriarchy with some white supremacy and capitalism and imperialism sprinkled on top. And of course, not every man goes down this road. But we're seeing that you don't have to be elite to go down this road.

[00:12:26]Lots of men feel so entitled to the bodies of women, even their committed partners, that instead of going to therapy and working on their issues and unpacking these entitlements, they rather go to a website and figure out how to rape their wife without them knowing. But that grown ass man who is now raping his wife was once a young boy. So, how do these behaviors develop?

[00:12:47]And what do they look like when they're subtle? Because it's not like a man wakes up one day and goes, "You know what? They grow into these behaviors based on what they've been taught to believe about themselves and about others and about women in particular and what women owe them." Patriarchal framework masculinity is often uh transactional. I'm the provider, protector. I work. Look at everything that you have. Therefore, I am owed something from you. doesn't dawn on him that he's essentially treating his partner like a sex worker. Look at >> I saw I saw a video I wish I had it and he just reminded me of it. But I saw a video last night and it was like a woman and she had said she had it was just like a funny video. It was supposed to be funny. But it was a woman she said in the video she had sent her h so it was like sometimes you got to read your husband's text and just move on with your life or something like it was one of those and she had sent him like a picture of the prices at the gas pump and she was like I never paid $60 to fill up a tank or something like that.

[00:13:50]And then he sent her a picture of him at work in his uniform and she because he was at work and he was like and you still haven't or something like that basically saying like he pays all the bills. Fine. You know what I'm saying?

[00:14:02]Like that's weird, right? Like because it still shows that he thinks that he is paying for it, not they are paying for it together. But any that's whatever. So that was whatever. And it was just supposed to be cute and funny, I'm sure.

[00:14:16]So I didn't read too much into it, but I was reading the comments, right? And do you know that it was like so many people in the comments like um so what knee pads are you going to wear when he get home and what and and what hair tie you going to use? You want the scrunchie or you want the the rubber band? And she was playing along. She was like give me the scrunchy girl and you know and doing all that stuff. And I'm sitting there going that's weird.

[00:14:40]That's weird.

[00:14:44]We and that was an example perfect perfectly illustrates what he's talking about that we as a society condition both men and women to believe that that men are the providers and that women owe us for being the providers. But here's the thing. If that's our role designated by God and nature and all of that stuff, then why the [ __ ] would a woman need to pay us homage?

[00:15:06]That's our role. Like think like think about it anywhere else in the animal kingdom. Does how does that work?

[00:15:12]How does that work?

[00:15:15]Lying there, you know, like I this [ __ ] is so weird. It's so it's it's really wild and and like I said, the the comment section was it was main mainly women because women are also groomed and conditioned and socialized to think and feel like this. So, I'm not shocked by that. But it was just I was just like, damn, dude. Like when I was reading the comments and I was like, that's crazy.

[00:15:37]That's it. Just got worseer and worser because his reaction was was like tongue and cheek. You know what I'm saying?

[00:15:42]Like I said, if it just would have ended there, I would have just let it go. But then when I read all those comments and how she was responding, I was like, "Oh, wow." People literally think it is like like a woman owes a man her body as long as he's paying the bills. Like what the [ __ ] Dawn on him that he's essentially treating his partner like a sex worker.

[00:16:05]Look at what I've paid for. Under patriarchy, men are conditioned not to see women as full humans. They're meant to see women as objects, something for their own personal fulfillment. This turns a partner from a full person with their autonomy to an asset that is owned. If you believe that, if you think that, it's not a lot of steps to get to the idea that you should be able to rape your wife. This happens with boundaries.

[00:16:34]It has been said time and time and time again, and we all need to internalize this. If they don't respect your boundaries, they don't respect you. That means they don't love you. And so this playful testing that men do of the boundaries. Oh, you really like that show? Oh, I would have picked something else. Are you sure you don't want to go there? Gets replayed in the bed. Baby, it's been so long. I've just missed you so much. I've been working so hard. You already said no. You can see how if they don't respect your nose in the small things, it's not much of a leap to decide that they can violate your consent in order to rape you. Because love under patriarchy is about possession and control. Will often weaponize their protector status in order to justify surveilling you. They want to know your password. They want to have your location on your phone. They want to be able to have access to your phone at all times or they monitor who you follow and who you interact with on social media and then they question you about it.

[00:17:29]Again, not respecting boundaries, not respecting autonomy. It's ultimately about power and control, but they'll wrap it up and just say that they're concerned that they just want you to be safe, that they're not worried about you, they're worried about other people.

[00:17:42]Power and control. Sometimes they will create these uh big romantic narratives.

[00:17:46]One of the things that was revealed in the CNN reporting is that a lot of these guys have this big external persona.

[00:17:52]They look like the perfect dad. They look like the perfect husband. They look like the nice guy. And this is coming from someone who looks like a nice guy.

[00:17:59]With you, they will often craft these narratives. You're my soulmate. You're my twin flame. No one understands me like you do. I get you. I really truly do. We've been through so much together.

[00:18:08]This is all emotional manipulation designed to keep you from questioning if you're safe in the relationship. is often used as a tactic to isolate you from the people around. A lot of these behaviors, they're to train you slowly into compliance.

[00:18:24]Also, men do that so that when if and when it ever comes into question, if he is capable of doing something so egregious, everybody will come to his defense and go, "What? Bill, you you're talking about the the head deacon?"

[00:18:42]Oh, no. It can Bill. No. Right.

[00:18:46]>> It eventually becomes easier to just give them what they want instead of fighting back. Think of a of an abused dog whose leash is on too tight. Then the one controlling that leash comes and loosens it up and the animal feels grateful, but you're still being controlled. You're still on a leash. All of that is by design. It's to train you to accept the normalization of these shitty, abusive behavior. And you can see that if these subtle things are happening, even if they don't fall all the way into those online groups and those message boards, male entitlement is still there and it's still just as dangerous. These are not things I'm making up. This is all well researched.

[00:19:26]This is all wellstudied. Epstein Files is not an anomaly. These websites are not an anomaly. They're socialized to have low empathy and are socialized to believe that everything that they do gets them some sort of reward. Normally you also conditioned to center their own experience. Get you as weak or hysterical or these emotions that you're having, these feelings that you're having are all because you're on your period. That's just sexism and misogyny at play in your relationships in order to gaslight you and keep you submissive and controlled. Frequent violating of consent. It's one thing to rape your wife and post the video. You disrespect her no on the regular. Both of those, different in degree, come from the same entitlement. Since you're an object and since you're a prize, your boundaries are actually a challenge to the hero, not an expression of your autonomy to be honored and respected. Because again, like I said before, if he doesn't respect your boundaries, he doesn't respect you. guarantee you that all of these men that are in those forums claim that they love their wives and they would protect their wives and they would take a bullet for their wives as long as she does what she's supposed to do. If you don't and that man has not taken the time and done the work, a lot of [ __ ] work to unpack their entitlements, they will find a way to get what they want out of you. That that right there, that last part is really something that I've been focusing on a lot. that man weaponized the concept of protection against women and it's always like I need to control her to protect her and I've never understood that. It doesn't make any sense because hey you can never you you're not Superman so you know trying to control her movements is stupid. Um because you're never you're never going to be around her all the time. Like she's going to go to work, you're gonna go to work, you know she's gonna have to go to the store. she like she's going to have a a ton of time without you and you're not going to be able to protect her in those moments more than likely.

[00:21:31]So, just give it up. But men love to use that. I know men men know that they can't, but they use that though against um against women to manipulate women to try to keep women in the fold and keep women underneath their u their thumb.

[00:21:45]This is like what it to me this is what it looks like playing out in in you know this is like a first a firsthand encounter of what all of this stuff looks like and and by the way trigger warning.

[00:21:58]>> Such a mystery why we don't want to date men.

[00:22:01]>> So he took my pants off fully around the ankles off the toes. So careful so quiet so everything. But of course like when I'm when I take my sleeping pills he must have been doing this. I didn't wake up. I had no idea. I had no idea. I had no idea. Nothing. No. I have no memories. Nothing. No recollection.

[00:22:19]Zilch. The only thing is waking up and having the in the underwear.

[00:22:24]So obviously fake took the pill. Pants are off. He's spitting into his hand.

[00:22:31]He's like making noises with spit. Like I I you know, obviously didn't see it with my own eyes. I can hear the [ __ ] What is he doing? He's putting it on himself and then he starts to slip it like goes back into the the spoon position real [ __ ] slow. Starts to slip it in a little bit. I wait until it's just in a little bit. It's just in a little bit. Okay. When I tell you I jump up out of the [ __ ] bed and he I've never seen this man more startled than this before. I've never seen him more [ __ ] startled than this. I jump up first, then he jumps up and I said, "What the [ __ ] are you doing? I knew it was you. I [ __ ] knew you were doing this to me. this is why I'm sick. I was crying. I was a mess. I was like, "You don't give a [ __ ] about me. You don't care about my well-being. You know I'm bleeding into the toilet. You know I'm on all this medication. You know, your sister's been saying lies about me, saying it's fake. Like, you are so evil and fucked." And you know what this man did?

[00:23:25]I need a drink of water. He gas lit me to my face. He tried to He said, "I don't know what you're talking about.

[00:23:33]What are you talking about? What's going on?" on. I was asleep. I was next to you. What are you What?

[00:23:39]And I said, "I [ __ ] didn't take a sleeping pill tonight. I didn't I'm not asleep. I waited until this moment. I'm not I was never asleep." I says, "I know what you're doing. I know what you've done." He's like, "You're crazy. I don't know what you're talking about. All this drama at night time. It's always drama with you." if you guys follow.

[00:23:56]>> So, um, that story, just FYI, apparently she her she was like allergic or something. She was having like a reaction to her then boyfriend's sperm and she was getting sick from it. So, I think that was kind of like why she might have been opposed to sleeping with him or or something. I didn't get the I was trying to find the full story and I couldn't find it, but I was watching a bunch of clips and that's what I could gather. And I'm sure you guys have seen this because this [ __ ] went viral like a year ago. But yeah, I thought I just th this clip right here. Again, this is before the 62 million, you know, visits to the to the rape website or what, you know what I mean? She may she talked about this like women have been telling this story so of like so many times for forever for a long time, right? Um, but that that's why I wanted to share with you just because it's it perfectly encapsulates what's happening right now.

[00:24:54]Male entitlement and the objectification of women is rampant and you we're we're watching it play out in 4K. Like that's what all of this is like on steroids.

[00:25:06]You know what I mean? Um and and and our culture is is rife rife with these ideas and with these traditions at this point.

[00:25:16]um uh and and and the lack of protection for women and children has led us that like this is where we're at now. This is where we're at.

[00:25:25]This is where we're at.

[00:25:28]Women, we need more protections for women. We need more guard rails. We need comprehensive education for little boys and young men and older men. Like, we need to attack this thing head on. Like, it it's not going to get any better until we do that. It's not going to get any better until we do that. This is just one one rink that they found. One ring that they found, sorry, of you know, uh uh men doing this.

[00:25:58]But I bet you there's 50 that we don't know about.

[00:26:03]It's sick.