These People Thought They Could Hide How They Really Feel About You In Jokes You’re Not Having It💥

Added: 2026-05-16

[00:00:00]These people disguise their jealousy toward you in jokes. People who are constantly making jokes at your expense often are disguising their jealousy or envy towards you. They try to make little light-hearted jokes when in actuality they are very serious. If somebody is constantly picking you apart, talking about your looks, your personality, the way you do things, those are the very things that they admire about you, but they make a joke about it. When you are dealing with jealous, envious haters, people who disguise their jealousy and envy as innocent jokes, they're saying what they really want to say about you, but don't have the boldness to come at you directly. So, they have to disguise it as jokes. Many women have experienced these kind of things when it comes to their mothers, family, and friends. A lot of women have been conditioned to accept little jokes at their expense as normal from jealous, envious haters.

[00:00:57]It's almost as if you've been programmed to accept other people's hatery towards you. When you start realizing that some people who are jealous and envious allow their intrusive thoughts to get the best of them and they start disguising this stuff as jealousy and envy in jokes, that's when you start to shut it down. A woman who understands who she is as a woman does not allow people to constantly make jokes at her expense.

[00:01:24]She does not allow people to always try to cut her down to size. And you definitely do not allow people to make you their entertainment. Some women don't even realize it, but their biggest hater was often someone from their family. Normally, unfortunately for many women, their biggest hater could have been their mother, and that's the reason why you keep attracting haters all around you. It's because you don't recognize when you are dealing with someone who is trying to make a joke out of you by hiding how they really feel about you. People who are not just jealous and envious, but they are a little bit cowardly in their approach, they will never tell you exactly how they feel about you. They will just continue to smile in your face, you know, laugh and be funny, make little jokes at your expense, and hope you never notice. The issue comes in when you notice and cut those people off.

[00:02:22]When people try to disguise their jealousy, envy, or dislike for you, they try to hide that in some kind of jokes.

[00:02:30]When you start calling that stuff out, when you start shutting it down, when you start looking at them like, "Who are you talking to?" or "What are you talking about?" they get so confused because for some reason, people who think they have you all figured out as if you are not smart enough to realize that they're hiding their jealousy towards you in jokes, or they're hiding their dislike for you in jokes. When you start realizing that and figuring it out, there are some people who are going to try to gaslight you. People who try to disguise their jealousy and envy towards you in jokes, when people allow their little intrusive thoughts to come out toward you, they normally start trying to gaslight you and telling you things like, "Oh, it's not like that." "Oh, you're too sensitive." "I didn't mean it that way."

[00:03:25]"Why are you taking this so personal?"

[00:03:27]"Why are you saying it?" People who try to disguise their envy or dislike towards you in jokes are people who are very insecure and very cowardly, and that is not something that you should tolerate because when you're dealing with people who always disguise their dislike or jealousy toward you in jokes, it's only a matter of time before those things get really serious. They're already saying to you what they really don't what they really want to say, but they're too afraid to say.

[00:03:59]That brings me to the next point.

[00:04:02]People who make jokes about your appearance, they normally love the way you look. If you are a beautiful woman, if other people find you attractive, expect that you're going to have other people, especially women, maybe even the women in your family, cracking jokes about your looks. They're going to make fun of your features, your facial features, your hair, and everything that makes you as beautiful as you are.

[00:04:31]Women who get irritated and jealous of women who have a beautiful smile, they're going to make jokes about that smile. They're going to say you look like the Joker, you look like the Kool-Aid Man. Why are you smiling so much? Why are you doing this? It's because that is one of the beautiful attributes about you that makes you beautiful. The very things that make you beautiful are the things that jealous envious people are going to make jokes about. If you have beautiful eyes, if you always have your eyebrows done or you always have light beautiful makeup or your natural skin is always glowing and looking beautiful, they're not going to see the glow. They're going to say, "Oh, why is your face so oily? Why is your face so greasy?" Not understanding that a healthy glow is your natural oil production in your face which keeps you moisturized, which gives you that beautiful smooth looking skin. They hate on things they do not understand. People who are jealous and envious and they try to hide their jealousy in jokes, they typically make fun of the things that they admire about you and they wish it was them. They wish they had your beautiful smile. They wish they had your beautiful skin. They wish they had your ability to make your hair look beautiful. See, people who are jealous and envious, and I want to backtrack on something about your mother being your first hater, for women who have experienced jealousy and envy at the hands of family members, you got programmed to understand their jealousy and envy as innocent jokes, often from a young age. How many times have women been called all kinds of names, given these weird little nicknames based on their looks from family members?

[00:06:25]Those kind of things, in my opinion, are done so that you don't get ahead of yourself. It's their way of tempering your confidence. When you have family who might be jealous, envious toward you, they are always trying to temper your confidence. What do I mean by temper your confidence? They want to make sure that you never feel too good about yourself. They want you to feel okay, but they don't want you to feel too good about yourself. So, before they let you know that your smile is beautiful, for example, they'll have to say something to the effect of, "Girl, why you showing all your teeth? My goodness, you got something in your tooth. And that tooth is crooked, and that one is You got a gap, and you know, and why are your lips like that?" So, it's like they acknowledge your smile while also tearing it down at the same time. They're trying to temper your confidence. Um girl, okay, why you keep flicking your hair? We see you got long hair. It's like for some women, it's so hard for them to just let another woman shine, let another woman just truly stand in all of her confidence. And I hate to say this, a lot of times this starts when you're young in families.

[00:07:42]It's like the mother does not want to see you get out of hand. And I don't mean, you know, that arrogance and pridefulness and things like that. But as a mother to a daughter, I want my daughter to think highly of herself. I don't want her to mistreat other people because of it, but I want her to think highly of herself. But there are some mothers, some aunties, some cousins, because they see everything as a competition, they will try to temper your confidence by making little jokes. They will make jokes about your eyes. Why are your eyes so small? Why your this? Why is that?

[00:08:20]Just picking apart your facial features.

[00:08:22]And the famous one, full transparency, I heard this when I was younger, "Girl, your forehead. Oh my goodness, your forehead, your forehead."

[00:08:30]When people try to make little jokes about things that you can do absolutely nothing about, not only are they very mean-spirited, but these people come after things that make you inherently you. And all of the things that I've mentioned for many women, those things never stopped them from attaining anything or anybody in life. And that is another reason why you have some jealous, envious haters who like to make jokes at your expense because despite the fact that you might have a big forehead, despite the fact that you might have a huge smile, despite the fact that you might have any other, uh, you know, different facial feature, you're still able to do what you need to do. And people still find you attractive. And that bothers them.

[00:09:20]So when you are dealing with people who try to make little jokes at your expense, especially about your appearance, it's normally the very things about you that they wish they had. It's the very things about you that they know make you unique.

[00:09:34]I I to sit on that for a moment about your uniqueness. In a time where everybody is trying to look the same, a lot of the uptick in jealousy and envy amongst women is because you have some women who are standing out from the crowd. When you don't look like a carbon copy of everybody else, you are going to get little jokes thrown your way. If you are the kind of woman that's doing anything counterclockwise or counter to what everybody else is doing, people are going to try to make little jokes at your expense. If you still have your natural body, and this is how far down that a lot of we have gone as far as society and women goes, if you still have your natural body shape, which happens to have flaws here and there, everything is not so tight and toned, you might have a little, you know, little jiggle here and there, you might have a little whatever, there are some people who will make fun of those things that are natural and normal as a woman.

[00:10:35]It's very weird. It's because they're accustomed to fake. So, when you see people try to make little jokes at your expense, it's normally because number one, those are the very traits that they wish they had. Number two, you are more natural while they are more manufactured, and I'm not going to get into too much detail on that, but people who make little jokes at your expense and try to pick apart your looks, pick apart your personality, I want to sit on that, too. This is another thing that often gets suppressed by joking when you are younger, by either a jealous mother, a mother who's trying to suppress your personality and your character, or family members who try to make little jokes at your expense.

[00:11:20]If you grew up, and I grew up this way, I was more quiet. I was more quiet than my other family members, my cousins. I was more quiet, more reserved. I I more laid-back, you know, to myself. I was an introvert. So, I had people who would actually make fun of me, say that, you know, "Why are you so quiet?" You know, treat me as if I was odd or weird because I was so quiet. Those very things about me being quiet made me an observer. It made me a better learner.

[00:11:51]And people didn't realize that. They just made little jokes. They made little jokes at my expense. And when you're younger, you know, you don't know what to do. You really don't say anything.

[00:12:00]You just take it. Until you get older and you realize people who always have their mouths running normally say things that get them caught up. And when you have enough wisdom, enough discernment, enough just common sense to understand that your mouth doesn't always have to be running, that's when people really look at you and say, "Okay, now we get it, but we still don't like it." It's because in that quietness, and I say this in regards to the picking apart your personality, in regards to being an introvert, cuz I know every woman is not an introvert, but I'm using that as an example. I'm using myself as an example of how some people can pick apart an introvert's personality and automatically assume that you're silly-minded, that you're not smart, that you're odd, not realizing that you might be you might be just the smartest person in the room.

[00:12:54]And this even goes for women who tend to be more extroverted. Sometimes people they wish they had that character that you have, to be more outspoken, to just say what you feel in the moment. And because they don't have it, they will pick that apart. Now, when I say say what you need to say in the moment, I mean that within reason. Wise women choose their words carefully, and we don't use our words to just tear other people down. But there's something about being an assertive woman, be it introvert or extrovert, that will cause some people to say, "Girl, you rough.

[00:13:27]You rough. You this. You that." Not understanding that it's not roughness, it's being assertive. It's not awkwardness, it's being selective. You are reading the room.

[00:13:40]So, when people pick apart your personality because they don't understand, because people tend to hate on things they do not understand, it's because they wish they were more like you. They wish they had the boldness to say what needs to be said at the moment and do it in a classy way.

[00:13:58]They wish they were able to sit in the quietness and not feel like they constantly have to have their mouth running in order to appear appealing.

[00:14:07]When actually they're just showing how silly they are.

[00:14:11]So, there are some people they hide their jealousy, their envy towards you in jokes. Um those things are not to be taken lightly. And the older you get as a woman, the less you deal with people making you the joke. You don't deal with people using you for their entertainment. And a quick little sidebar, but it's still on point, I recently saw a video and this is about how they let the intrusive thoughts get the best of them. I recently saw a video of a woman and I don't love the context behind it, but either way it was wrong.

[00:14:45]I saw a video over on Tik Tok. It looks like they were at a children's party and a young woman came behind another woman, had one of the little, you know, play not not play plan, but the ball ball pin balls in her hand and she came up and did like that in the back of the head to the woman. And the woman just looked and she just kind of laughed it off.

[00:15:07]Understand, I don't know the context behind why she did this, but in my opinion, there's under no circumstances is it okay for you to do that to another individual. So, I give you this to say that sometimes when people even see you having such a great time cuz this woman was talking to a guy looking at the kids I believe and she's smiling and giggling and this woman just came behind her and did that to her right in her head with one of those balls. It's very weird. She took one of the toys out of the ball pit and did that to the lady in the back of her head. Who does that?

[00:15:42]Not only do jealous people allow their, you know, hide their jealousy in jokes, but sometimes they allow their intrusive thoughts to come out in very weird ways.

[00:15:53]You could be having such a great time and that could just rub them the wrong way, make them irritated. It's a very weird time we live in. As women, you know, you protect yourself, remain unbothered, but by all means I will say the most important thing is to know how to read the room and the energy of the people you're around. Cuz yes, know how to read the energy of the people you're around. So these people try to make little jokes at your expense, but you are not a laughing matter.

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