Unmasking the Echo Chamber

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[00:00:00]What shocked me even more, this is so crazy, was realizing how far this goes beyond addiction. It's everywhere.

[00:00:06]People who present themselves as informed, intelligent, even authoritative, speaking with absolute certainty about things they barely understand. And I saw it because I I saw it in myself first. I mapped it. I thought I was thinking, but I was echoing. Borrowed opinions, repeated language, defending them with everything I had because I needed to believe they were mine because I had no identity of my own, which meant I really wanted you to believe it, too. I needed that validation. I had none within myself.

[00:00:35]And when I started to actually trying to prove myself wrong, right when I started to learn to critically think who I was, how I thought, why I thought what I thought, why I felt what I felt, why I was attached to these stories, I saw how uncomfortable it was for me. Radically uncomfortable. My mind would twist information to protect what I already believed. I wasn't searching for truth.

[00:00:54]I was defending an identity. I would notice I would read stuff and study it at and I would twist the information to try to make me right. And I I was aware of it cuz I was practicing awareness and metacognition and mindfulness. And I would see the way my ego would try to take the information and it would get angry when I something would would show how wrong I was. That my opinion was based on some bad information or a misunderstanding, a misinterpretation.

[00:01:20]Again, it wasn't because I was malicious. This wasn't I didn't choose any of this. I built a personality based on what the world wanted and I had nothing of myself. And it's terrifying when you first see it, when you first rip the mask of defending your ego off.

[00:01:35]Once you see it in yourself, you can't unsee it in everybody else, right? Their posture shifts, the way their tone tightens, the way conversation disappears and defense takes over. This is so wild. I I I've explored this with so many colleagues and friends in any context, anything from 12-step ideology to therapeutic tools to politics to financial things.

[00:02:00]I would have a conversation and they would tell me thing. I go, "Oh, I didn't know that was true. Oh, that Okay, I thought it was something else."

[00:02:07]Cuz I didn't argue with them cuz I'm not sure I what I know is right, especially when it comes to like politics and geopolitics and financial stuff, right?

[00:02:14]And so I would go look it up.

[00:02:16]I would take what they said and I was really interested cuz I was past the point of just wanting to be right. I was actually now trying to see if I can have critical conversations with the people around me because I'm trying to build that type of intimate rapport, right?

[00:02:30]Real intimacy where we can listen to each other. And I would go and I would look it up and I'd come back the next day. And this happened so many times with colleagues, with people I respected, people with a bunch of letters after their name. I don't know if I got a different out I'm serious about this.

[00:02:44]Think we might have different Googles. I think I might be getting lied to by Google cuz I could not find what you said yesterday. You want to look it up to get Oh, so what? I'm just a lying piece of Like, whoa.

[00:02:57]That's not what I said at all.