Why you second-guess yourself: It’s not your fault.

Ajouté : 2026-06-03

[00:00:00]Love and fear can exist at the same space. Current threat can overlap.

[00:00:06]What feels normal can also be destabilizing.

[00:00:10]As a child, you don't call this wrong.

[00:00:14]You adjust.

[00:00:15]You learn what keeps the peace. You learn what not to say. You may grow up doubting your perception, second-guessing your memory, ignoring your instincts to stay connected.

[00:00:29]This isn't weakness.

[00:00:31]It is adaptation.

[00:00:33]When safety is unclear, the nervous system stays alert, not because something is wrong with you, but because something once was.

[00:00:43]That confusion can follow you into adulthood, not as a flaw, but as a trace of an environment where safety wasn't consistent.