누군가에게 모욕을 들었을 때 이렇게 대응🤫

Ajouté : 2026-05-19

[00:00:02]How should people respond to an insult with a lot of silence? You say something ugly to me, I'm going to give it about 5 to 7 seconds of nothing. You still proud of that right there. You can take it back if you like, but I'm not taking it.

[00:00:13]It's that mindset of I'm not taking it.

[00:00:15]I don't have to pick it up. That's not mine. Because we get so used to catching. Just because somebody threw, we feel like we automatically have to catch. You don't have to hit it back over. You can just let it be there. Two, what I like to do is usually ask them to repeat it.

[00:00:28]>> Yeah. I usually will say, "I need you to I need you to say that again." I've yet to have anybody who could do it because it's like they don't want to show they're ugly. They don't want that highlighted. They know what they just said. What they were expecting was that hit of dopamine of me giving it right back to them and feeling that sense of control. I've now put a big spotlight on their behavior. And then it's just it's not fun at that point. They're like, "I got to get out of here." Like that wasn't the hit that I was expecting. And when I say, "I need you to say that again." They're going to have to remember their words and regurgitate