The goal of nervous system regulation is not to achieve constant calm and ease, but to develop the capacity to handle increased responsibility that comes with greater abundance, love, fame, and success; this process involves pressure testing one's ability to hold more, which requires deep spaciousness, grounding, and responsibility, and is a natural cycle of expansion and contraction that most people seeking transformation will experience.
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The Biggest MYTH of Nervous System Regulation
Added:What people don't realize is that the more you do this work, the more you're reclaiming your power. And that power always comes with more responsibility.
And that's what your nervous system needs preparation for. Sometimes people will misinterpret the preparation of their nervous system, the strengthening as you're bringing in certain experiences to pressure test you to see if you're ready to hold the next level of responsibility. That could be coming with a lot more money, that could be coming with a lot more of whatever that more is for you. And it could be quite a few things at all the same time, but it's a pressure test. It's not saying that you're doing it wrong. It's pressure testing you to see are you ready to hold that level of responsibility.
>> I love that expression, pressure testing. Because there's a myth around nervous system regulation isn't the space where oh, we're just always tranquil and happy.
>> Yes, I know.
>> No, it's that we've become spacious enough to pressure test, to use your beautiful language of like, oh, okay.
Cuz all the things that we want, love, connection, money, abundance, fame, whatever it is, requires deep spaciousness, grounding, deep responsibility in us. So, if we want these things to play bigger in our lives, we're going to get tested all the time. So, we're going to find a place of, okay, I am I'm grounded. I'm I'm good in this place. All right, now I'm going to level up. And I'm tested. And whoof, things can get really dysregulated and really intense. So, it is always this journey of expansion and contraction with that. Unless unless we're content right where we are, we don't want any transformation or expansion, and that's okay. But most [clears throat] of us do want to keep expanding, which means that we're going to be tested.
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