MY SON LIED TO ME AND THAT BROKE ME//THE LIFE LESSON EVERY CHILD NEEDS TO LEARN

[00:00:02][music] [bell] Oh, yummy. Mommy, this one. Take your money.

[00:00:14]>> How much this one?

[00:00:17]7700. Okay. 1,000. Eh, >> why do you fucking >> Why chop one000 but my son icon. I get one give me for [snorts] um um coconut.

[00:01:03]>> Yes.

[00:01:11]Yes, I go be eating.

[00:01:22]>> Uhhuh.

[00:01:39]car.

[00:01:42]Thank you.

[00:01:44]Backing dog monkey. [laughter] >> Give me the back.

[00:01:59]Go.

[00:02:04]I see. I can't catch a man.

[00:02:09]pass like this. Like this run away.

[00:02:27]>> Come and see me is going.

[00:02:31]Come in.

[00:02:41]Let's go.

[00:02:44]>> What go do you know?

[00:02:54]>> Grandma go.

[00:03:00]H rapper.

[00:03:02]Mama, what you going to pass like this?

[00:03:10]Bye-bye.

[00:03:19]Where is the slippers?

[00:03:21]How are you? Give me, give me, give me, give me.

[00:03:34]coconut. I bought chocolate.

[00:03:38]>> Yes. Let's open the coconut.

[00:03:40]>> I want to open the coconut.

[00:03:42]>> Yes.

[00:03:44]Let me test it. It's sweet.

[00:03:46]>> It's sweet. I want to test this.

[00:03:52]>> To test it.

[00:03:57]Wait.

[00:04:08]So come back to my house since how many days ago?

[00:04:13]my video.

[00:04:19]>> Where my >> Give me not tears. The one that my body is man tella.

[00:04:34]>> Why you lying to me?

[00:04:37]Why you lying to me son? If I go to the house and see pieces of my you be in trouble without telling me the truth tell me in trouble.

[00:04:50]>> Huh?

[00:04:52]>> I don't come this side.

[00:04:58]You tell my rapper what did I tell you about telling your parents?

[00:05:07]What about the parents?

[00:05:11]>> When you're blocking the vi what is not good [music] is not good.

[00:05:19]Why do you lie to me now?

[00:05:22]>> You can't say that.

[00:05:24]>> Why do you lie to me that you're not my rapper?

[00:05:27]That daddy is going to handle you for me.

[00:05:30]So why did you lie to me? cuz I I remember telling you that if you do something wrong if you are asked you should say the truth and because you say the truth even the person was angry I wanted to beat you person will forgive you because you said the truth but you lying made the person more angry I'm sorry it was a mistake I didn't know it was going to tear I didn't know it was not intentional now. Oh, I didn't I didn't know you going to get angry.

[00:06:04]I'm the one that did it. I didn't know it. You not like it. I'm sorry.

[00:06:09]The person will not forgive you.

[00:06:12]Then do your wise.

[00:06:15]What are you learning for me?

[00:06:30]I don't know [music] to lie for me, didn't I?

[00:06:35]When I sh I don't know to lie for me, didn't I? So, what gave you the go? Lie to me.

[00:06:44]>> Mommy, papa, >> what gave you the guts?

[00:06:48]>> Lie to me.

[00:06:50]>> You think you're wise?

[00:06:54]Eh, and I told you not to carry my wrapper and go out, haven't I? Is biting me here, guys.

[00:07:07]>> Go to that place.

[00:07:09]>> I'm trying to kill it. I'm >> trying to kill it.

[00:07:14]>> I already kissing him.

[00:07:18]Show you my love. Let's sit there.

[00:07:22]>> Mommy, >> I killed it. Mosquito.

[00:07:33]>> It's mosquito bite.

[00:07:35]>> Mosquito. That's them. But I killed it.

[00:07:41]>> Little bites.

[00:07:43]>> That is not coming out. That >> is not coming out.

[00:07:48]Becky Becky come my dad will break it. Yeah.

[00:07:55]Give it back.

[00:07:58]Uncle now for how it get Emmanuel.

[00:08:04]This my wrapper is too wrapper. So the other night I came back from shop. I saw >> Emanuel laying this my other wrapper on the floor of my auntie children room.

[00:08:16]All of them we are we are making rapper somebody we are playing as rapper and this is not the first time Emanuel is doing that and I told him that you shouldn't carry my wrapper >> and play if you want to play you should play but shouldn't use my stuff and play because obviously he cannot wash them I carry my play and since two days now he has not brought his back and I asked him this afternoon I'm telling this one I ask her where is second one of this rapper. She be in mama house and you not you've not bothered to bring the wpper back to the house. He said yes it's there. I said I go and get it. He get it. And I look at the rapper don't shut.

[00:08:58]I said why is this wpper small that you cut this wrapper right? He say no you not tear it. I said money this wpper this wrapper is turn you to it into two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two three two of us. I said no that's okay if I go to my house my auntie's house and I see oh my is too much and I see that the rapper is tall what am I going to do to you when yes rapper is who say is him why you not admit the first time why didn't you admit the first time that you rapper so as you started lying sound like a human No.

[00:09:40]>> How old are you?

[00:09:41]>> Seven.

[00:09:42]>> You're seven years and you're lying to me.

[00:09:44]>> Mommy, come see seven.

[00:09:47]>> I told you if you do if you if you do something that you know is wrong. If you ask, learn to say the truth. Say, "Ah, mommy, it's me that mommy, I'm sorry. I didn't know you're going to be angry."

[00:09:57]And mom, it was a mistake that the rapper thought. There are things you say to your mother. Your mother will forgive you and not to lie that you're not the one. and my son you know if I tell your father is going to spank you very well he's going to flog you very well you know in Nigeria they used to beat children very well you know now they used to beat children so if if if I tell your father that you you did this and you lie that is going to beat you so that next time you not say it so what do you want me to do to you now I should tell daddy so what should I do to you I'm listening H you don't want to talk.

[00:10:37]Come closer and let me see your face.

[00:10:39]What should I do to you?

[00:10:42]Open your mouth and decide your feet.

[00:10:43]What should I do to you?

[00:10:44]>> Okay.

[00:10:45]>> I should not do anything. So she goes curs for telling lies.

[00:10:49]>> Forgive me.

[00:10:50]>> Eh, >> forgive me.

[00:10:52]>> I should forgive you. On what condition?

[00:10:57]>> Please.

[00:10:58]>> On please condition. No, that's not a condition.

[00:11:01]Forgive me, please. I understand. On the condition that you will not try it again.

[00:11:07]On what? On what condition?

[00:11:11]>> Try it again.

[00:11:12]>> You not try it again. Tell me lies.

[00:11:16]Tell me lies.

[00:11:18]>> I will never sing that song.

[00:11:22]I said with you >> sing it. Let me hear it very well. I will never >> I can't hear you. I will never my mom lie to daddy fighting my neighborhood never my now you are singing you will never steal from my mommy but tell lies to daddy but you told lie to mommyh you never tell lies to daddy but are you laughing who's playing with you can I look like I'm joking with you is it because I'm being with Eh, you will never tell lies to daddy.

[00:12:04]But you told lie to about me. You will never beat up a younger ones. But every day you evangel fight. Eh, no. You will never beat up a younger ones. But I'm talking. You're laughing. No sense. I'm taking you're laughing. But every day is fighting. Husband and wife, cut and rat.

[00:12:23]You're laughing. You think what you did is funny.

[00:12:26]Do you think what you did is funny? I'm thinking you're laughing.

[00:12:30]H I not blame this speaker. I not blame you.

[00:12:34]You will never beat up your younger ones. You never fight in your neighborhood.

[00:12:40]Only if you never do but God will not allow you to ste in Jesus name.

[00:12:43]>> But the three character you tell lies to daddy. You're fighting in your neighborhood. You're beating evangel.

[00:12:53]Come on say amen now.

[00:12:54]>> Amen.

[00:12:56]>> You're going to get broom. Come and s this pal. This pill is dirty for my liking. Once he pulls back move see head time you try that discipline I'll tell your father don't beat you like this your head will correct next time you know rubbish so pick it up what's wrong with you young man come here come Hey, >> what what did I tell you when I send you message that you should be doing?

[00:13:37]>> Smiling.

[00:13:38]>> Huh?

[00:13:39]>> Smiling.

[00:13:39]>> I can't hear you.

[00:13:40]>> Smiling.

[00:13:42]>> That if I send you message, you should be do what?

[00:13:44]>> Smiling.

[00:13:45]>> You should be smiling and be happy. Why you doing that message that mommy send you? Cuz it's not easy to have a mother.

[00:13:50]Are you hearing me? If I send you message be smiling and be smiling and be in fact I want to see your teeth be stupid and be shining your teeth.

[00:13:59]I'll send you message the front face as small as you are sh your teeth I'm not see your teeth from here face me make I see your teeth hello you're laughing I be naughty boy think is it to have a mommy better shine the teeth let me sit very well silly you know she be laughing like a mu de [laughter] I laughing like a mu No sense.

[00:14:30]H why you finding your face again?

[00:14:37]I told you that if I send him message making they smile. Make they smile because to have a mother be smiling.

[00:14:45]Mama send you message.

[00:14:49]I know some of your classmate mom and the daddy is not together. I know some that lost their mommy at birth. Who >> eh?

[00:14:58]>> Who mommy? Is he not dead?

[00:15:01]>> M for he's no longer coming to your school. Your class. One of your classmates. His mommy died. One of your classmate. I know that woman very well.

[00:15:11]I'm going to drop you in school. That time we are so similar. All of us will go together. Now the woman have died.

[00:15:17]Send you message.

[00:15:19]Come on. Get to work. Stop saying that listen to me they do lazy laziness from Kika.

[00:15:29]>> No act like a human being. I don't want too much sand.

[00:15:46]>> I don't want much sand.

[00:15:49]It's better for you that madam doing in Evangeline.

[00:15:55]>> Yes ma'am.

[00:15:57]>> Ky madam.

[00:16:04]>> Mommy inside the house.

[00:16:09]>> Don't speak for her. She has a mouth.

[00:16:10]Mommy, >> what are you doing inside the house?

[00:16:13]>> Shut up. Mommy, what are you doing?

[00:16:16]I play with you. I play with what are you playing with? It's a monkey. What?

[00:16:24]>> I play with picture.

[00:16:26]Oh, let's go. Let's Let's go. Let's go.

[00:16:28]Let's go. [laughter] >> I picture it. Cut it up.