Yates They don’t come back because they’ve changed

[00:00:00]But, how many times do we go through this cycle? This is a great question.

[00:00:03]Let's go ahead and get into it. You don't need more closure, you need more clarity. You already know the pattern.

[00:00:08]They come close, they pull away, come back whenever they feel like you're slipping, give you just enough hope to reset the clock, and you let them in.

[00:00:16]Not because you're weak, but because your heart is loyal. Because you're craving connection in the cracks that they created. But, here's the truth.

[00:00:24]They're not confused. They know exactly what they're doing. They like the power of knowing that you'll still be there.

[00:00:30]So, the real question isn't will they come back? It's when they do, will you let them in? Because the more that you allow this cycle, the more that you teach them they don't have to change to have access to you. Let this be the last time that you confuse pain for passion.

[00:00:46]Let this be the last time that you mistake return for redemption. You don't need another round to prove that this hurts, to prove that you have feelings, to prove that you care, you cared, and you have always cared for them. They know that. They know that you care. Why else would you still pick up? Why else would you still respond to breadcrumbs?

[00:01:05]You need to walk away like you finally believe it. Like you finally are choosing you. Because you are. This is different now. You have different information, and you can move on. It's time to start prioritizing yourself, your needs. Right now. You can do this.

[00:01:19]I know this is really hard. I am really sorry. I do hope this helps.