The video offers a sharp analysis of the social friction caused by personal boundary-setting, illustrating how individual growth inevitably destabilizes established codependent systems. It effectively frames the transition to autonomy as a necessary, albeit disruptive, act of psychological self-reclamation.
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THEY CANT BELIEVE THIS ABOUT YOU ....
Added:They can't believe this about you.
For some of you, this individual or these people, whoever they are, cannot believe you are becoming more independent.
They were so used to you being codependent and now you are stepping out on your own.
They can't believe they can no longer manipulate you anymore. If anything, they feel like you are manipulating them. Where did you find this power from? Where did you find this new found sense of love from?
They can't believe that you are not sharing with them anymore. Normally, you're open and joal, expressive, and now you're quiet. You don't answer your calls anymore. you don't text back as quick anymore. For some of you, you don't text back at all. For others of you, you've blocked them and they can't believe this.
You're not bothered anymore.
They can't believe you come out of a state of depression.
You know, whoever these people are, they were so used to you always needing them.
And now you have found your purpose and you're not looking back. You're not asking them for permission to be who you want to be to be your true authentic, original, innovative self. They can't believe that you're embracing who you truly are. You're befriending who you want to befriend without trying to appease these individuals. Cuz maybe once upon a time you needed the opinions or relied on the opinions of others.
They can't believe that you are more softer now.
They are used to a angry you, a vengeful you, a bitter you.
That's how you may have been when you were around these individuals. They kept you in a low state. You want positivity.
You want happiness.
You don't like to align with their kind. Is the seven of swords. You're seeing the truth as to who they are. And you're starting to think, is this how I looked when I was with them cuz I have this saying, you are who you are around.
And we got the seven of swords here and we got the seven of swords in my other deck.
And they can't believe that you can see them for who they are.
Maybe when you were around these people, their behavior was normal, but after you branched out and started to connect with other people, you realize that, hold on a minute, these people are actually toxic.
All they did was just gossip about other people, belittle other people, they were rude to other people, and I were hanging around them. Did I look like that, too?
They can't believe you no longer want to be friends with them. You no longer want to hang out with them. You no longer want to chill with them.
You're not part of the click anymore.
And to be real with you, you never were.
You are independent. And they tried to keep you stuck and codependent. They can't believe that there's no more love here.
You feel like there's nothing left for you there anymore.
This could be a friend, family member, exartner for some of you. They can't believe that they're now feeling trapped in the head with the eight of swords.
Maybe at a time you were in this energy and that's where they wanted to keep you and now they're in that energy and they don't know how to set themselves free mentally.
Even if you're around these people, you've closed yourself off from them.
They thought you will always be relying on them and they can't believe that you don't want anything from them anymore. You got your own money.
You got your own things. You don't need what they are forcing you to take because them forcing you to take things from them was their way of trying to be a permanent fixture in your life because sometimes you didn't even ask them for anything. But they wanted you to be so relying on them and they can't believe you're turning them down.
You want nothing from these people.
No money, no material things is going to make you change your mind.
It's like the veils being lifted. You can see the soul of these individuals now and you don't like it and you don't want to align with it. You're seeing that their energy is dark.
You're seeing that their energy is controlling. You're seeing that their energy is manipulative and you want to keep away from it.
You're heading towards the light and they're trying to claw you back into the stuck darkness mental trap that they had you in because that's where they are.
And they can't believe that you're falling in love.
maybe with someone else that's not them or maybe just with someone. They always thought that you would be, you know, someone that just dates or someone that just friend-zones people and they benefited whoever these people are off the old version of you. But you are evolving and also they can't believe your choice of partner or the type of people you like. They could be someone that is not your usual type and someone that they disapprove of. Someone that they felt that you know you would never date, someone that they look down upon.
Whatever the situation is, you're breaking free and you're realizing that these people were never for you. And you're looking back and you're thinking, "What was I thinking?" Listen, we've all been there.
Yeah. When we have dated someone or we were friends with someone because at that time in our life when we aligned with that person, that's where we were at emotionally and mentally. But we evolve, we grow, and you are evolving. and you're jumping into a new timeline. And these individuals or this person, they're stuck. They're literally stuck.
And they can't believe h you've left them behind.
Good.
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