We’re ALL Selling Ourselves.

[00:00:01]So, people don't want to admit that everyone is using whatever they have to get what they want. Everybody is doing it in some way.

[00:00:14]Right? This is why people maintain connections.

[00:00:18]Women sleep with men, men sleep with women.

[00:00:21]Right?

[00:00:22]Um, men gravitate to the most powerful man, women gravitate to the prettiest woman. Everyone is trying to be connected. Everyone is using what they can to get what they desire, right? Even if it's unintentionally.

[00:00:38]People have a problem with attractive women doing it, beautiful women doing it, because it it appears that it's an unfair advantage.

[00:00:49]And it's so obvious.

[00:00:52]People are going to respond to you differently because your level of attractiveness, right?

[00:00:58]It it it triggers people.

[00:01:02]And so, when I talk about beauty and attractiveness and all these things that um, come with it, people don't like it because people think, well, you have this advantage. Why are you talking about it? Why are you making it a thing?

[00:01:20]People don't want to hear about it and they don't want to face that they may not have the currency, right? All women are not beautiful, all women are not gorgeous. We just tell women that.

[00:01:35]Right? And it's obvious that all women are not the same because all women don't have the same access to certain things. Right?

[00:01:47]So, we're all using whatever we have to get what we want.

[00:01:51]Listen.

[00:01:52]When proximity to men a lot. Women are absolutely using what they can to get what they want. Women know how weak men are to women, how men have an insatiable desire for women.

[00:02:05]The most basic mid-face woman, unattractive cuz they are unattractive women, they're all doing it.

[00:02:13]When you are in proximity to men, especially average men, any attention is is good attention from women. So, she could be the most twisted-face woman, if she flirts, bats her eyelashes, she's going to get whatever she can from that man, whatever he can offer her, whatever he's willing to part with.

[00:02:38]But, for an attractive woman to say that out loud, for her to know that there is an advantage for her, people hate that.

[00:02:47]Just like people hate that people with money and access can buy the things that the average person cannot buy. They can get into rooms that the average person cannot get into. They don't want you to talk about these things because it points out the advantage that they have over you.

[00:03:08]When that's just life.

[00:03:11]There are things that some people will be able to do that you won't, just based on who they are connected to. It's just the way that it is.

[00:03:21]There's nepotism, right? There's relationships, there's all kinds of things that puts people in certain positions that others may not be in because they don't have that advantage.

[00:03:33]Unfair or not.

[00:03:36]People have this idea that everything should be fair, especially women, but that's not so.

[00:03:43]Women know this. This is why women want to [ __ ] powerful men, and if they have [ __ ] powerful men, they do everything they can to keep the connection with him because he can do things for her that she may not be able to get from another man or on her own.

[00:03:59]Women have been using their [ __ ] and feminine wiles to get where they want to go since forever.

[00:04:06]But when you are attractive, you cannot say these things. It's not polite.

[00:04:11]People are going to attack you.

[00:04:13]Or they're going to try to reduce and minimize you.

[00:04:16]Um to make you believe that you are not who you say you are or who you know you are.

[00:04:25]You got to be very strong. People will lie and say, you know, I'm just like Like a man looked me dead in my face the other day and said We were talking about I don't remember something about, you know, I said, "And and men all think that they they are with beautiful women." And he goes, "My wife is My wife is beautiful."

[00:04:44]I've looked this woman in her face.

[00:04:45]She's not beautiful.

[00:04:48]I'm not going to say she's ugly, but she's not a beautiful woman. If you put her on the internet, she's she's not going to get the responses that a beautiful woman gets. If you put her in She will get attention from men because she's a woman.

[00:05:02]All women are going to get attention from men men, but she was not beautiful.

[00:05:07]Right? And so People will tell themselves anything and they will try to convince you, right, of their beliefs.

[00:05:18]Beliefs don't have to be true for people to believe them.

[00:05:21]Right?

[00:05:24]I watch women throw themselves at men.

[00:05:27]I watch women offer themselves to men. I watch I watch This [ __ ] happens and we all know it.

[00:05:35]People like to point out and make uh attractive women, sexy women the face of trading themselves to men, but all women do it.

[00:05:48]Even the most coolest homegirl, she's trading her [ __ ] or or the the illusion of her to some man.

[00:05:58]Or a previous connection. I see that.

[00:06:00][ __ ] been [ __ ] a man a man for years. She getting proximity to him, she tries to use that as leverage.

[00:06:08]I told y'all the story the other day about the three friends.

[00:06:13]They all got a connection to one man, but they don't know that one of them was [ __ ] him.

[00:06:18]Right? So, we all understand these things, but these things and it's human it's human nature. It's what people are doing.

[00:06:27]They want they they understand these things happen happen, but they don't want certain people to have unfair advantages and that's just it's just going to happen.

[00:06:38]Right? This is why beautiful, really attractive women should not be in certain environments because they're going to be the target.

[00:06:46]And I'm talking about this from experience. You're going to be the target because women are going to assume that all men are falling after you, right? And they're going to create some type of competition when there isn't.

[00:06:57]Those men are for you.

[00:06:59]The average men are for you. They're going to choose you over me any day.

[00:07:05]If they can sleep with me, they will.

[00:07:07]But that even that, they wouldn't want to take it any further because they wouldn't be able to they they they won't be able to maintain that.

[00:07:15]They won't be able to to have someone like me on their arm who's who stands out, who's always made up, who's always, you know, attractive, looking her best.

[00:07:24]Men can't deal with that [ __ ] The average man is not going to deal with they're going to choose the regular maid woman to share their lives with. We all know this.

[00:07:35]Right? But people want you to believe other and they want to act like it's not happening. I see this [ __ ] all the time From the most unattractive women to pretty women, all women are doing something to get ahead, using something.

[00:07:49]They all do it.

[00:07:50]Some women Many women just don't know how to really do it intentionally.

[00:07:56]Just because men are attracted to us, we're going to get something out of it.

[00:07:59]Just because men love women.

[00:08:03]Men will tell you all women are beautiful when they know that's not true.

[00:08:06]They just want access.

[00:08:08]Right? And as somebody in proximity to men a lot, I'm telling you all this [ __ ] You know, eventually I'll get into, you know, more things as I go, but everyone is doing Everyone's trying to get over.

[00:08:25]Everyone's trying to get ahead.

[00:08:27]Right?

[00:08:28]And anything that is a threat, they want to stop, neutralize, or end it.

[00:08:35]Women do this all the time because our currency is beauty. And when they see a woman who has a lot of it, they assume that she's getting something that they're not.

[00:08:45]I learned early on that I really I have to earn my keep. I can't depend on people. I can't you know, I can use what I have to get ahead, but I got to make sure that my foundation is solid for me because if it crashes, it's going to crash harder for me because people want it to be crash harder for me. People are going to make me a target. People are going to pick me apart. They're going to watch what I'm doing. Watch what I get. This is my life.

[00:09:13]So, I don't put my life in a man's hand because that's that's giving somebody too much power.

[00:09:19]Especially when I'm in proximity to mostly average people, they I'm going to be the target.

[00:09:27]I'm going to be what people want to end because they believe I'm taking something from them.

[00:09:33]Often times, it's women believing I'm taking men from them. No, they're for you. That's what you're here for. You're here to give men what they want.

[00:09:42]Men are just here to admire me.

[00:09:46]Right? But we're all doing it in some form or fashion. Some people just know that they're doing it, right? They're doing it intentionally, and others are doing it passively. But we're all doing it. And when there's a threat, when someone who is in the way, they want to neutralize it or end it. I see this [ __ ] happen all the time. Women try to do it to me. It's blatantly obvious.

[00:10:10]And often times it's insulting because, come on. Like Somebody asked me on TikTok, "What if a man wanted to spoil me?" I said, "Spoil me? Spoil me is for children." Being spoiled is for children.

[00:10:22]And the average man can't spoil me.

[00:10:24]Spoil me with what?

[00:10:27][ __ ] you spoiling me with. You don't have the Your money's not long enough to spoil me if I was open to that.

[00:10:34]Right? So I had to learn how to be self-sufficient cuz if I'm not and it depends on other people, they have the power to sabotage me.

[00:10:43]Right? But I'm aware of all these things. I understand what's happening and I accept it. It is what it is.