Men aren't obligated to make random women's lives easier, not our job

[00:00:00]people on Twitter calling me ableist because I said that college students should be able to meet with their professor for 5 minutes when necessary.

[00:00:07]>> I just noticed something so dystopian lately. I do field sales, so I'm in grocery stores a lot, and there's an entire major chain of grocery stores I've noticed doing something different.

[00:00:17]They started putting mini stores inside of the store. They have their own register. It's all blockaded off. And I asked one of the employees why they're doing this, and she said that they are blockading off the items that have most likely been stolen in the past. I get it, they're a business, they're a corporate >> Now, WHO'S RESPONSIBLE I SAY WHO'S RESPONSIBLE for this unwarranted attack on my person?

[00:00:38]>> That's What are you talking about? Yes, people are stealing things and they have to put it behind a plexiglass barrier so nobody steals it and then you walk up to the barrier, you press a button, and then it says someone will have to come and unlock the barrier for you to get your item.

[00:00:55]Nothing to do with inflation. They've been doing this. This has been This has always been this way in certain areas.

[00:01:00]They have to lock up certain things because of theft. You ever notice that it's not the bread and the milk, the broccoli.

[00:01:07]It is always stuff that can be resold.

[00:01:09]These are thieves. They're coming in, they're stealing, they're reselling it, they're making money, and then they're spending the money on other certain things that I can't say on YouTube.

[00:01:18]>> I mean, that's capitalism, but I just think it's so important we take a step back and think about how crazy that is that instead of looking at the astronomical price of groceries and why people might be stealing more, the corporations are just putting in more parameters to prevent theft. It's just so classic. The corporations always >> Well, they have to put those in because these stores are located within cities that have certain laws that do not allow local law enforcement to prosecute these thieves. Okay, they can go in, they can steal some deodorant, they can steal some hair cream, some hair dye, whatever, but as long as it's under a certain amount, they can't do anything.

[00:01:53]In a lot of cases, the only thing they can do is arrest them and then hold them and then release them again in these certain cities. So, the stores have to put some sort of barrier to try to minimize the risk. That's just what happens. But, unfortunately, in these areas, what the reality is that a lot of these areas, they just get stolen from so much that the stores have to It's actually cheaper for the stores to close down because they're getting the theft is too rampant. They They just close down and leave.

[00:02:18]>> Hearing the male perspective on dating is actually scary cuz it kind of reinforces all my fears about ending up forever alone. Especially in a city like New York City.

[00:02:27]I was talking to this guy.

[00:02:30]He cool. Over 6 ft.

[00:02:32]Got a good job. Affords to live in New York. So, do the math.

[00:02:36]Um good-looking guy, dresses well, whatever. Objectively attractive.

[00:02:42]And I was asking him to like, "Do you be taking girls out on dates?" And he was like, "Oh, you know, I try, whatever, da da da." I was like, "Oh, so are you dating?" He's like, "Oh, well, you know, as men, we always have somebody in our orbit." I think he said there's always a sun in our orbit.

[00:02:55]Meaning a girl that they're talking to.

[00:02:56]He was like, "We're not built like y'all. Like, we have to be dealing with somebody at all times."

[00:03:02]And then I was like, "Oh, yeah, da da da."

[00:03:05]It's an interesting way to put it. I've thought about it like that cuz >> With all due respect, and remember I'm saying with all due respect, that idea ain't worth a velvet painting of a whale and a dolphin getting it on.

[00:03:15]>> Um I would automatically assume this guy is lying. He is kind of planting the seed that there's competition.

[00:03:21]>> I'll be going.

[00:03:23]The drought be long for me. Like, I was trying to explain to him, she didn't believe but like, "I'm not talking to anybody. There's nobody in my phone. I'm not seeing anyone. I'm not dating. Like, it's just me versus me right now."

[00:03:35]And he just couldn't fathom that.

[00:03:37]>> [clears throat] >> But, he admitted that guys aren't built like that. So, then it had me thinking like, "Wow, every guy that I ever meet, he's already dealing with the woman that he's not making his girl for whatever reason."

[00:03:48]And then he was also saying, I was like, "Oh, well, don't you want to settle down?" Cuz I'm assuming he like 35 or up. He been in the streets for a minute.

[00:03:55]He was saying I do, but you know, the grass is always greener. And he was explaining to me that whenever something is like wrong with one person, he's always like thinking of like, oh, the next person, the next person, the next person.

[00:04:05]>> What the world would happen to you?

[00:04:07]I don't know what you need to tell them.

[00:04:10]>> Well, let's um, you know, I told you what I thought. Obviously not true. You know, this guy is he's I I've no idea what's going on. Let's hop into the comments and let's see what they say here. First comment, that's not true. That's just him. He's speaking for himself, literally. Why'd you lead with his height? Well, I mean, well, I think we all know why she led with his height.

[00:04:30]Man has options. He's too Yeah, and so what? Absolutely. Maybe he does have a lot of options. It's New York. I don't know. Never been in New York, so couldn't tell you. Sounds like a horrible place.

[00:04:40]>> I'm 27 and I've never been in a serious long-term relationship. Of course I do want a relationship. I am a hopeful romantic. I am a lover girl. Even if I'm just seeing a person, if I'm hooking up with them, if I have a little fling with them, I'm only seeing that one person. All of the guys that I've had connections with >> [laughter] [laughter] >> That makes it better, by the way.

[00:05:13]Somehow that makes it better. Yeah, she's a When she's with that guy, she's only with that one guy. And then the next night she's with another different guy. But there's only just one guy. It's never just a room full of men. Just yeah. Absolutely. Makes sense. Makes sense. Makes perfect sense.

[00:05:27]>> They have Honestly, all of them have been in a long-term relationship, whether that is like them living with their ex or them having a kid with their ex or you know, just like been together for a handful of years. It's hard for me not to compare myself because I've never been in a serious relationship. Like I've never lived with a guy. I've never had like >> Just do me a favor real quick. Just get your hand and just lift up your hair above your eyebrow. I just want to see something real quick. I just want to see where the like what's happening here cuz that's very uh that's very interesting to me.

[00:06:08]>> long-term plans. Of course like I've had flings. I've had hookups.

[00:06:12]>> We know. We know.

[00:06:13]>> But of course it's always me wanting something more.

[00:06:15]>> Of course.

[00:06:15]>> And I do communicate >> Well, that's because you you're you're only getting what you're you're allowed to get, which is We all know what that is. Everyone knows who that is at this point. Not a mystery. They're getting it. The men are getting it and the women obviously want something more. It's not going to happen though. It never happens, but it doesn't stop them from trying.

[00:06:34]>> when I am seeing someone and if they have like a long-term relationship, I never disregard that because everyone's past makes them who they are present.

[00:06:46]>> Got you, [ __ ] >> There you go. That's That's all you had to say. That is all you had to say, you know, because a lot of men look at women that have done what she has been saying.

[00:06:56]Multiple men, one man a night though, so you got seven men a week, 365 days a year, that's 365 men times 10. You do the math, okay? You can do the math super easy, super simple to do the math on that one. But your past absolutely defines who you are going to be in your present and in your future. So there you go. You answered your own question.

[00:07:15]Congratulations.

[00:07:16]>> Why is it? [music] I was just on my way home from work.

[00:07:19]>> Uh-huh.

[00:07:19]>> And I get on the train.

[00:07:21]>> Okay.

[00:07:22]>> And this woman gets on.

[00:07:24]Probably >> [music] >> eight, nine months pregnant, like >> Okay.

[00:07:27]>> well visibly.

[00:07:29]>> Visibly. Right. Right. Right.

[00:07:31]>> And I look around. Like I have a seat.

[00:07:35]>> Okay.

[00:07:35]>> around.

[00:07:36]>> You're looking.

[00:07:36]>> And there's a sea of men. [music] >> Got some semen.

[00:07:41]>> Sitting next to me, sitting across from me. Seamen all over you.

[00:07:44]>> And they just like awkwardly look at her.

[00:07:48]And no one offered to get up for her to sit.

[00:07:53]It was shocking. Of course.

[00:07:55]>> Okay. Okay.

[00:07:56]>> Fellow mom, just fellow woman, fellow good person.

[00:08:02]Says, "Oh my gosh, like please sit." And she looks around awkwardly and she was like, "No, no, no, I'm just on for two stops." Girl, come sit down.

[00:08:10]It's just It's ridiculous. And like the men look >> Oh.

[00:08:15]Oh.

[00:08:18]No.

[00:08:19]Well, you know, obviously it's not these men's What do these men have to do with a random pregnant woman? This woman's pregnant, who cares? People get pregnant all the time. Well, not men, but women, you know what I mean. Obviously a non-issue. These men are not obligated to give the seat to some random pregnant woman that they don't even know. Their wife, sure. Absolutely. Their elderly grandmother that needs a seat, yes, absolutely. Let grandma sit down. Case she needs to rest. These men, they're getting off work. They're trying to go home. They're trying to get some sort of peace before they walk into the the hellish landscape that is probably their married life. So, they want to sit down.

[00:08:59]They want to listen to some podcast and not be bothered. I think they have the right to do that.

[00:09:05]Now, you can definitely give up your seat, that's perfectly fine, but men are not obligated to be chivalrous to pre-impregnated women that they don't know. But anyway, fellas, let me know what you think in the comments down below. Do not forget to like and subscribe to my channel and I will catch you guys later.

[00:09:21]Peace.

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