Why Most Don’t Understand Narcissistic Abuse

[00:00:00]Till it's you, until you fall for the fraud, who has zero intentions on being a partner that pours into you emotionally, never supports you, but in the beginning gave the perception that they would be, you don't have a [ __ ] leg to stand on to have this conversation. See, everybody got advice for a survivor, but ain't truly an actual survivor. Everybody's got to get over it until you experience this kind of trauma and disappointment yourself.

[00:00:21]Until you feel embarrassed to ever [ __ ] say you were associated with somebody so cold, so calculated and dangerous to your nervous system. And speaking of nervous systems, we knew something wasn't quite right, right? We never felt all the way safe. Never felt like they were compromising, they were sacrificing or putting in enough work, you know, on themselves, on communication, on being available, on personally healing, apologizing, being accountable, you know, just normal adulting type [ __ ] Yeah, that. See, there's always a reality check that hits all survivors at some point. That no one, and I mean this [ __ ] literally, no one is above reproach when you think you've met the love of your life. Make the commitment, step out on a limb in the name of love, only to find out months or years into this [ __ ] This is a whole ass [ __ ] trauma bond.